Let's talk about reality?
I actually find it a bit difficult since I don't watch them, in fact I would find it hard to talk about any TV show since I don't physically have a TV at home. (sacrilege!! blasphemy! hahaha )
I still want to try to talk about reality TV… I'm going to ask you a question about that: how do you think 99% of reality TV contestants who don't know anyone after a while get along??
One figure says it all: in the world 11 former reality TV contestants committed suicide.
Not a few.
How do I know this data?
They passed me the link to a video, you will find below, a video of a service of Hyenas who went to visit some former contestants of Big Brother.
In the video you will see that:
- One fell back into thealcoholism
- Another was taken by crazy delusions of grandeur, until his wife left him
- One went into crisis depressed by ending up in a psychiatric hospital
- Another one makes some more "hosts", I'll let you see what kind
But why all these cases of suicides and depressions? And yes they had taken money! What happened to them?
Icarus has wings bound with wax
Who remembers the myth of Icarus?
In a nutshell, Icarus, a mythological figure, had built wings with his father to escape from a labyrinth.
Le wings were attached with wax and his father warned him not to fly too high into the sun.
Icarus, however, did not listen to her words and, rising more and more towards the Sun; the heat melted the wax, Icarus fell and died.
Why did I tell you this myth?
Because when a person has a instant success that didn't deserve, can happen that still don't have the tools to either maintain or manage this success.
Maybe think of having these tools, feels cool, and then flies high forgetting that his wings, in fact, are attached only with simple wax.
This feeling of being cool is in fact only a pretense: after all, why should you feel cool??
Because you made half of Italy laugh with your shit figures? Because you are not able to conjugate a verb? Or because maybe you gave your butt to some unethical talent scout (let's not name names)?
Your self-esteem doesn't have a solid foundation, your self-confidence in reality does not exist.
And what happens?
Cadiand the thud of the fall hurts a lot.
The exact opposite happens when a person creates with his own hands his own success, in the climb is formed, and is much more able than some people to manage what happens.
As they rightly say at the end of the video: "The secret is a solid tool bag, if one is well equipped it is impossible to get lost in a glass of water".
Say no to the herd of scoundrels
Sheep, sheep, sheep: that's what some people are.
No come on, I was wrong, maybe it's too strong an insult, poor sheep, they did nothing wrong. hahaha
And I'm not talking about these particular characters, I'm talking about the mentality they represent.
Unfortunately they represent the direction in which a good part of people in our country is going.
You want the proof?
Did you know that the cultural level of a country is inversely proportional to the number of games such as "Superenalotto" et simila?
In other words, the more the cultural level of a country is lowered, the more successful these games are.
Remember a few years ago that there was a boom in these things? The newspapers kept talking about it.
You want to know another thing that happens when the degradation of a country increases?
The gambling: have you noticed the various "game rooms", they call them that, that have sprung up in recent months?
Game Rooms??!?!?! What a great game to take out your whole salary in a couple of hours!
The "game rooms" I went to as a kid: those were some game rooms! Nascar was a video game, not a slot machine!
By the way the concept of Big Brother you know where it comes from? From a beautiful novel by George Orwell: "1984".
In the novel we talk about a futuristic society completely massified and mentally subjugated to a central power, they have chosen a proper name for the tv program you do not find? 😉
Deserve what you desire
The gist of it is this: you need to deserve what you want, to someday get to deserve what you have, and most importantly to Deserve what you are.
It seems strange to make this kind of speeches in a country like ours where meritocracy it seems a bad word, don't you find?
I know, we're the land of the sly, the land of the easy shortcut, and that's exactly why I'd like to suggest a thought, a belief, a conviction that is the exact opposite of all that:
I will have only what I deserve
and more:
I don't want anything I didn't deserve
So the world won't be bad anymore, you won't look for loopholes, but on the contrary you'll know that you'll get what you deserve.
This guys, for me, is priceless.
All my actions are based on this, think for example of the paths I have created to overcome shyness and the one to become self-confident.
I offer you maybe a shortcut? I'm going to suggest some darn tricks?
No!
I propose you respectively 30 or 60 days of exercises that they push you beyond your limits, but then you see the results!
I don't want anything that I don't deserve
This is the key.
Video
I almost forgot: you want to see the video about former Big Brother contestants?
I recommend it: click here to see it.