Pricey guys, as we speak let’s do some little bit of amarcord and speak about two myths of seduction, Of two world establishments on the topic, of two legends: Don Giovanni and Giacomo Casanova.
What’s your fashion?!
Don Giovanni and Giacomo Casanova, so shut for fame and notoriety, so totally different for different causes.
Don Juan and Giacomo Casanova: what sort of seducer are you?
To start with Don Juan just isn’t an individual who actually existed, it’s a character created first in literature, then within the theater and at last, by a recreation of reflex, within the collective creativeness, and represents the conqueror par excellence.
A seducer able to creating very excessive peaks of attraction and conquer many ladies, but additionally an unreliable character and unable to have a love affair with a lady.
Mozart wrote a really stunning opera during which Don Giovanni makes all of it the colours, for instance he seduces a woman at her wedding ceremony get together.
Here’s a video of his seduction technique As you possibly can see, he makes use of from the start the method defined in On the spot Attraction, of the ‘seduction method’ angle of somebody who already is aware of the way it will finish, in reality take as a right that you’re telling us “There we’ll shake palms, there you will say sure to me.”.
James Casanova as a substitute, was born in Venice in 1725 and died in Dux, in as we speak’s Bohemia in 1798.
He’s nonetheless thought-about as we speak the best seducer of all time, and has lived a life filled with passions and journey, out of each social and conventional scheme in comparison with that point to enter the legend.
His life has been an actual journey novel that has had as its backdrop the courts and salons of Europe, but additionally the taverns and locations much less refined, and as background the Venice of the 700 ‘.
The factor that almost all amazes of this unimaginable character is the flexibility with which he, an individual belonging to the “bourgeois” class of Venetian society, was in a position to enter any front room of the excessive the Aristocracy of all Europe, as much as meet the kings and queens of Europe prior to now.
Moreover being good at seducing a lady and conquer her, additionally possessed robust social expertise! :-).
One other distinction, which can also be probably the most substantial to know the totally different ideas with which these two characters confronted the seduction, is characterised by the truth that Don Giovanni didn’t make distinctions, he beloved each lady with the identical ardour.
Casanova has at all times beloved each lady with whom he had a relationship, falling head over heels in love and crying punctually on the time of farewell.
He beloved to enter the minds of girls, coming to know them deeply, even from the sexual viewpoint, the place he was insatiable to the unbelievable.
A seducer to 360 levels, who seduced each lady who crossed his path, and who beloved with the identical ardour.
A dispassionate recommendation that I can provide you, is to learn “Hisotire de ma vie”, i.e. “Story of my life”, written by Giacomo Casanova within the final 8 years of his life, when he was in decline and was hosted by a good friend of his, the Depend, within the citadel of Dux, the place he died.
He wrote for 8 years even 12 hours a day, and gave delivery to some of the extensively learn books within the historical past of world literature, greater than 4000 pages of life, which provides us not solely the chance to know how this grasp of seduction behaved in conquering a lady, but additionally presents us a novel day by day state of affairs of the society of 700′ , as much as make us think about dwelling with him these adventures.
I’ve learn this masterpiece and the sensation you get once you end studying it’s that of getting a brand new good friend, and sorry if that is not sufficient :-).
In his memoirs he talks about love tales with 122 totally different girls, however all consultants agree that these are solely crucial ones, as a result of in reality there have been many however many extra.
To conclude, I supply my very own particular examination of those two characters:
- Don Giovanni is in our jargon a traditional alpha man, very virile and filled with masculine power, lightning quick in approaching a lady and in a position to create excessive peaks of attraction, however on the identical time additionally the traditional unreliable alpha man with whom it was unimaginable to create a love story.
- Casanova then again, being an actual one who existed and having such a fancy persona, was each an alpha and a beta man in his life, having many alpha behaviors but additionally many beta ones particularly in his youth. Nevertheless, the very fact stays that he has turn into the best and most skilled grasp within the artwork of seduction ever existed and I might classify him and not using a shadow of a doubt within the class “True Man”.
So:
- Don Juan = Conqueror = Alpha Man
- Casanova = Seducer = True Man
A minimum of I believe so, and also you!? Who do you most have a resemblance to!?
I think that men with Casanova syndrome, or even more so Don Juan syndrome, overestimate themselves. Believe me in my experience)