You and I both know very well what pisses us off about guys, right?? When he hits on you after you tell him you're not interested. When he texts you a hundred messages on facebook, even if you don't reply. When he's always talking and texting about sex. Well, that sort of thing. But I wonder what pisses them off about us? We decided to find out. And that's how it turned out. The thing that pisses guys off the most about you is these things:
Wanting to know about his every action
"It's awful when a girl is literally watching me and wants to know what I'm doing every second. ¶¶ I feel under the hood ¶¶. This kind of super control isn't for me.".
Refusing to understand that he's not interested in you
"It's very frustrating when you seem to have already made it clear and explicitly explained that nothing can happen between you, and she's still trying to get at you. Generally speaking, pressure in a relationship is totally unacceptable.".
Too much need for emotional support
"We all need to be held in our arms sometimes. But when it's a regular rhythm for the man, it's stressful. I have better things to do than endlessly comfort this weeping and suffering creature. I feel like I've got a kitten or a baby instead of a girlfriend to be around 24 hours a day.".
Lack of friends
"If a girl has no friends, it's suspicious. People don't want to communicate with her? What's wrong with her?? Plus, it means she's gonna want to spend all her time with me. And I need some personal time that I can only spend on myself. Sometimes I want to be alone or hang out with my friends. "Potentially the lack of friends is a big problem.".
Ignoring personal space
"If she gets too close and yells in my face, I won't see her again. I want to breathe freely. I need at least 50 unoccupied centimeters around my unique personality.".
Desperate attempts to change myself for him
"I knew a girl who changed depending on who she was dating at the time. She was a badass rocker with a leather jacket and black hair. Then she started dating a guy from drama school and dyed her hair red and changed her pencil skirt and silk blouse for a pencil skirt. Next in her bio was a blonde lover, and she dyed her hair and changed her clothes again. "Who the hell is she?? She exists as a person in her own right?"
Excessive babbling
"You're my fluffy bunny! Ew, it makes me want to puke!"
Too many mood swings
"A second ago she was cheerful, happy and contented. And now she's turned into a fury that hates everyone around her. And it happened so suddenly, I did not even have time to understand why it happened. Actually, is there a reason?"
Increased clinginess
"We just broke up and she's already calling. Or you open the chat room and there's 123 unread messages from her. Even though we broke up an hour ago. Well, man, that's not normal.".
Wanting to speed things up in a relationship
"I don't want to go to dinner with her mom after a week of knowing her. And I haven't yet planned the seating arrangements for our wedding. Hey, easy on the curves! Everything has to develop at its own speed and happen in its own time. Don't push me.".
The urge for covert manipulation
"Attempted covert pressure and manipulation forever destroys trust. It's when a person doesn't tell you openly what he's not happy with, but tries to press your guilt and play all these games with you. Yesterday you refused to go with her to meet her friends and she said it was okay, and today she's in a bad mood and won't come to the phone and generally makes you feel like you're a terrible person. No, that kind of girl doesn't work for me. If something's wrong, let her say so straight out.
Recklessness
"When a girl's crazy, it's only funny in the movies. If you meet someone this desperate in life, it's not so cool anymore. ¶¶ You don't know what to expect from her ¶¶. She's always pulling something that makes your hair curl. And sometimes it even gets scary. True.".