There are times when you feel that something is wrong. Nothing specific, just a feeling. Last week you were chatting excitedly on VKontakte, but as of Tuesday, it's like something's changed. We'll tell you what's wrong: He just doesn't like you and, after talking to you for a few weeks, he's decided to blow it off. He's not interested. It's very frustrating, and it's probably not your fault at all. He just decides you're not right for him. That can happen. That's hard to believe right away, so we've put together 7 sure signs for you that he doesn't like you. Check it out and don't get frustrated. Remember, there are a lot of guys out there. And you're so beautiful, you're the one and only!
You write first all the time
Look at the history of your correspondence. If you initiated the conversation the last five times, this is it. Of course, the guy you like can be super shy. But, trust us, if he's interested in you, he'll find a way to overcome himself. At least once in five.
He answers after a long pause
If someone you like doesn't respond to your message for 10 minutes, he's either dead, at the movies (and well-mannered enough to turn off his phone), or he just doesn't want to meet you. You know this truth? 10 minutes is certainly an exaggeration, but there's some truth to it. Most people keep their phones around all the time. So he's seen your message and just isn't in a hurry to respond.
His answers will… disappoint you
Brevity may be the sister of talent, but very short answers and constant abbreviations are not what you want to get from him. We understand a lot, but if "okay," "awesome," and "ah haha" are all you get from him, he doesn't seem very interested in you.
You don't see him in real life
If you're not dating in real life, he doesn't exist. The only exception is if you live in different cities. In all other cases, if he likes you, he will definitely ask you to meet him. Or he accepts your invitation.
He's constantly texting with someone in your presence
The phone is a reliable way to hide when you don't feel like talking to the person. It's very convenient. You just bury your nose in it and you're done. If he doesn't communicate with you when you're around, your case is a pipe.
He is active on social media, ignoring you
You write him a message, and he… First he leaves a sparkling tweet, then a big post about the current economic problems on "Vkontakte", and later a couple of pictures on Instagram, and only then will he reply to you. He seems to have better things to do.
He cancels your plans without offering anything in return
Canceling plans in and of itself is totally normal. Anything can happen in life. But if you are interested in him, you will try to explain the reasons why he can't see you and offer you some other way… If a guy doesn't do that… Well, you get it. He doesn't really care about you.