I wonder why we girls are always worried about stuff like how not to seem intrusive, stupid, ridiculous, etc.д.? In short, we are constantly worried about what others think of us, and especially that same guy. But, in reality, if you get right down to it, it doesn't really matter that much. Because all that matters is what you think of yourself. That's what affects your mood and, as a result, the impression you make on those around you. We decided to tell you about 8 things that really piss guys off. But that doesn't mean you have to stop doing them. We think that these things are totally normal, it's just that guys are kind of weird, they don't understand anything… And it's infuriating!
Taking pictures together
It's completely unclear why, but, you've probably met some of these too. Just when you want to take selfies with him, he swamps you with a bunch of stupid questions: "Are you taking a picture??", "and you'll post it on social media?", "you're crazy?"etc.д. Oh my goodness! It's just a picture!
Invitation to an important event for you
You're in a school play, or your band has a concert, or your mom's birthday party, or whatever it is that's really important to you, it's OK to invite him over. And it's his problem if it bothers him. Seriously! In general, if he is straining a lot, it's a reason to think, maybe he doesn't want to advertise your relationship in public? You need this?
The second message you send if he didn't respond to the first
Remember this once and for all: you don't have to ask every star in the sky for permission to send him a clarifying message. You asked a question or just texted and he didn't respond. He's just a rude jerk, stop thinking about what you wrote there wrong. Just ask him again what you need to know.
Asking for help or a favor
Sometimes we all need help. And you don't have to be silent and deal with things on your own. But guys sometimes get stressed out by even the most innocent requests. We don't know why, but it's definitely not about you.
Wanting to get compliments and to know that he cares about you
Do we seriously think that relationships are built on non-verbal communication alone?? Oh, come on! Speech is what separates us from the animals. And it's okay if you're interested in what the other person thinks about you, how they feel about you. Everyone needs to hear confirmation from time to time that they are loved, that they are unique, that they are interesting, etc.д.
Talking about important things
Talking about the weather is infuriating! Really, it pisses me off! Wanting to talk to people about something important to you. You want to be heard. You want to know what they think about it. You care about it? Congratulations! There's nothing wrong with you. You're not a nerd. He's just afraid to talk about his feelings and his fears and his worries. He's afraid to be funny and ridiculous. It's so girly, you know?… And gender stereotypes are to blame!
Questions about your relationship
You want to make up your mind about status? You're dating? You're friends? "What are your plans for the future?? And rightly so. These things need to be figured out. It pisses him off? It doesn't mean you're annoying, it means he's not ready to take responsibility.
Expecting action on their part
We've all been in those relationships where you just text nicely for six months and then he gets bored. But, let's face it, it's not a relationship. If he wants to be with you for real, let him be with you for real. It's easy.