Today, the Internet is certainly one of the most popular methods of meeting new girls, but it is also dangerous. To avoid the mistake that almost all men who want to hook up online make, I decided to talk about the apps to meet girls, telling you which ones are the best, since I have tried them all personally.
So, if you're interested in hooking up on apps and want to know what the best ones are to date for meeting girls online, this is the article for you.
But before we get into the heart of the matter I want to make with you a "review of fundamentals".
First I have to deal with a topic that, I swear, I am ashamed to do so, but it seems that in Italy there is a great need ..
What is the difference between apps and dating sites?
Yes, I know… while I was writing this title my guts were twisting, but you have to know that by doing a little research I realized that in Italy you have to explain the difference between apps and dating sites even to experts, or at least presumed to be such..
Now, I'm sure you would know very well the difference between an App and a Website, yet…
What maybe you (and some "so-called" experts) don't know is that some apps for online dating are actually internet sites! Let me explain.
An App is an application for smartphones (cell phones), such as Tinder, Bumble or Happn.
A site on the other hand is something like Badoo or Lovoo.
Not that the last two do not have their own application, but these dating platforms were born and built as websites, then with the explosion of smartphones and Apps were created mobile versions that perhaps you use too.
Now I don't want to go into these speeches, so much for practical purposes it doesn't make that big a difference, but if one takes the trouble to write an article on the subject (and I'm also talking about sites specializing in seduction) you would expect to know the difference between an App and a dating site.
I really don't feel like I need to weigh down the article but, at the same time, I wasn't able to keep quiet when I saw that the professors we have in Italy don't understand the difference between Roma and Toma.
However if you want to find out exactly how the Apps and Sites I've just written about work, by clicking on the individual links you'll be taken to a dedicated article for each of these platforms.
Well, having said that, let's move on to more juicy topics for those of you who are interested in watching the video is really interested in online dating.
Is it possible to hook up on apps or is it just a hoax??
Simply put..
Picking up on the App is absolutely possible, at least for a good chunk of men and if the number of female members in the place you live allows it.
It's certainly possible for me and my private students who constantly show me how they get dates online while I correct their messaging mistakes.
But since I don't like to talk "so much for" and to the words I prefer the facts, I shot a video where I show how fixed 18 dates, in just two days online, starting from scratch, in a new city and with fresh profiles.
If you are interested in watching the video where I show you with screenshots of what I just said just click here.
Instead, since I told you about corrections made to private students, if I were asking if it's possible to become one of them, the answer, at least at this time, is no.
If, however, you're interested in learning about the same strategies used in the 18-date video, I recommend you check out my Digital Seduction course, where I'm going to share the techniques I use to dominate dating sites and apps, while being a regular guy.
If you are interested you can learn more by clicking here.
Before moving on to why "I advise against it" the App to know each other, to be as transparent as possible I want to say something that may have gone unnoticed.
In the YouTube video I linked, only part of the dating comes from apps and dating sites.
This however does not negate the validity of one fact: if you know "make money" the applications to know girls, with these you can pick up.
Dating apps: two reasons why I don't recommend them
Most likely you've noticed that I teach how to meet girls through the use of the internet, consequently show me contrary to online dating man woman is obviously a provocation.
Obviously I recommend apps for chatting with girls and, especially if you're in a period when for whatever reason you're stuck at home, they're a good tool for getting to know girls.
Note well though that I said ONE tool and not THE tool.
In fact, pickup apps are a good tool only if you have two important caveats.
The first loophole is the fact that we have three main ways to meet women: in clubs, on the street during the daytime approach and online.
In this scenario even the best online dating apps should represent nothing more than a supplement in your business of collecting contacts of women you're interested in.
Put another way..
Even the best apps for getting to know girls will only ever represent a tool and never The Tool.
The reason is quickly stated…
The average quality of the women you meet online is lower, statistically speaking, than the ones you can meet live by learning to approach cold.
As a result, it is clear that online dating should only be another source of contact gathering that allows you to develop that abundance mentality you hear so much about in the seduction industry.
But if you only give yourself to online dating and neglect meeting women in person, you're shooting yourself in the nuts.
Meeting women live will allow you to raise the average level of the women you date and, what's more, better filter the ones you bring to your dates.
The average quality of women you meet online is lower, statistically speaking, than those you can meet in person by learning how to approach them coldly red flags of the type of woman you don't want) gives you a much broader sample of her personality than one you know online.
This in simple terms will allow you not only to go on dates with more beautiful women, but, in general to make better average dates.
That's because you'll be able to tell in person if you like that girl or not, and if not you can decide to devote the night you'd be out with her to a woman closer to the characteristics you're looking for.
The second point for which "I discourage you" Dating chat is this: if you're afraid of meeting women in the real world or they intimidate you, leave dating apps alone.
Right now the very first problem to solve is how you feel inside yourself when you are in front of a woman.
In fact, absurdly enough, I could use the best apps for meeting women for you, I could set up dates for you..
But the truth is..
What good is a date if to this day you can't even have a pleasant conversation with a woman instigating in her the desire to see you live again during a 10 minute interaction?
It is clear that if you are not able to handle a 10 minute conversation with a woman and instill in her the desire to see you again, it is very unlikely that you will be able to successfully manage a date of at least two hours with her.
Simply put, your dates will be flops.
In fact, if you feel that you have problems with conversation and dating, I suggest you check out my Conversation Master courses to improve your conversational skills and Advanced Seduction Techniques for Dating.
In fact let me be clear with you.
Many men, once I explain to them the benefits of meeting women live compared to online, from a logical point of view have no more doubts about the fact that online should be just a supplement.
The truth, however, is that they shit themselves meeting women in the real world!
If you find yourself in this situation I encourage you to postpone your dreams of online glory.
I guarantee you that right now, to improve your seductive skills and to improve as a man what you need is to approach unknown women cold, daytime and/or nighttime.
I realize that this is scary for some men but it really is the best thing you can do for your own growth if right now women scare you or you feel that your interactions with them are poor.
And if you feel that right now, for you, approaching a woman in the daytime or at a club without guidance is too big a leap, I suggest you check out my Carpe Diem course for daytime approach and Carpe Night course for nighttime approach.
Really, if right now you start from a situation of weakness this is what you need and, if you are committed and you will be constant, past the rocky start, one day you will thank me.
Why many people in Italy suggest using dating apps to meet girls?
Let me be clear with you by repeating this concept.
Dating apps and sites have no problem per se, as long as you use them as a supplement!
I know that to many people what I just said will go in one ear and out the other, but that doesn't change the truth of the matter. Probably these people will continue to get poor results and complain.
Think about it, I have routes to meet women for sale in just about every way possible, so I have no interest in pushing you toward one approach over another.
In all this there is no conflict of interest, in fact, maybe some will be disincentivized to buy Digital Seduction because of what I'm saying, so I hope you appreciate the sincerity that not everyone has in this industry.
So, let me be clear and brutal with you so that we close this diatribe once and for all.
Do you know why you are so fascinated with online?
Because online rejection doesn't hurt, you don't even notice when the girl doesn't respond to your message and doesn't give you a like.
Conversely being rejected several times in person when you are learning and taking the no in the face is much more painful.
But this evil is a bit like medicine, the more they are loved, the more they work.
Many men, however, do not want and do not want to swallow the bitter pill necessary to create the lifestyle that they intimately desire.
And who sells courses to pick up online emphasizes this aspect in seduction because they know very well this weakness.
They know very well that many of you will not be able to overcome the first obstacle of fear of approaching and being rejected and, therefore, emphasize the positive characteristics of the online while knowing that is the worst place to start.
Having said that, if you're one of those virtuous men who want to use dating apps, you'll have to consider this as one of the many arrows in their bow, let's move on.
Let's start with the speech that students of seduction love so much: the word Free.
The best free apps to meet girls
Let me tell you something that will leave you a little amazed…
In Italy, and in the world, all dating apps are free, but in reality none are.
Sounds a little weird, doesn't it?
Let me topic.
Let's first start with the best dating apps to meet girls.
We have Tinder e Bumble. End.
These apps are free, meaning you can sign up and give some likes for free.
However For most men, this strategy will not work.
In fact if you don't pay Tinder, after a while it makes the average man practically invisible.
Said in other words: either you look like a Greek god or you pay. Either you live on bread and saws.
Different is the case for Bumble. In fact in most of the cities in Italy the members will be so few that it is not worth paying. It is useless to be visible if no one can see you.
Nevertheless, I recommend that you do not take anything for granted and do a test because, as an old saying goes, "field testing is king".
That said if you speak English Bumble I really recommend it. Especially if you live in a busy tourist town because this will allow you to Meet foreign women at a time when you're subject to very low competition.
Tinder, on the other hand, really requires you to pay if you're an average guy, otherwise don't even waste your thumb.
Why these are the best apps to hook up online
Let's go back to Tinder for a second for some clarifications. I just explained that the average man, whether handsome or ugly, if he wants to get results must pay.
If instead you want to fool around with your friend between one like and another it makes no difference.
In any case if you are among those who want to get results I recommend (as well as pay) to start by reading my article on Tinder.
It is very important for one reason.
You have to know that Tinder has an algorithm at the base of its functioning and, if it penalizes you, you have it in that place and you become practically invisible.
Having said that the discourse on the Tinder algorithm is long and a bit technical so I suggest you take a look at my article dedicated to it.
I would like to make one last point: if in your area there are no members, or there are few, leave it alone. There's no point in stretching the mileage range to almost expatriate.
If in the circle of an acceptable mileage there are not enough members you have to use other approaches to meet new girls.
Among the best apps to meet girls we also have Bumble.
Bumble has its merits and limitations in Italy, but if you speak English and live in a place with a lot of foreigners, it can be a gold mine.
To learn more I suggest you read my article on how Bumble works.
At this point we still have to discuss Happn.
Happn is a bit particular as a dating app. If you are interested in knowing the specifics, again I wrote a free article on the subject, you can read it here.
To make it extremely short, Happn's differentiating idea is to give two strangers who are in the same area or go to the same places the chance to get to know each other. Actually even as they cross paths on the street once by chance.
Now, forgetting for a moment several technical problems with the app (I explain them in the appropriate article) the problem is this:
Maybe that girl you see passing by and you like her a lot is not registered on Happn and so what do you do? Tell you the excuse "eh unfortunately she's not registered"?
In very few words: Happn is not the right way to meet women when you go out in the sunlight.
The right way is the daytime approach that you can explore rather than wasting time on nonsense.
Note that with this I'm not saying Happn doesn't work or hasn't allowed someone to meet, but what we are interested in is being as effective as possible.
And when we talk about effectiveness
Happn is to the daytime approach like a cruise on the Titanic is to the plane to get to the U.S
Apps to meet girls: here's the secret to using them intelligently
So… there is a sensible way to meet women through online apps?
Yes, and actually if you've followed what I've said so far, you'll find that it's very simple.
If you are learning I advise you to give you some rules always, provided that the preferential approaches will always be daytime and at night in the disco.
At this point, as you know, I recommend an average of 10 approaches per day if you are learning.
If you're serious and you can hit this target audience then you can definitely reward yourself use online as well.
And if you're interested in learning about the same strategies I used in the 18 dates YouTube video I suggest you check out Digital Seduction.
See you soon,
Gio