In general, the rule "keep your mouth shut" is ideal for the triangle "you-your-boyfriend-best friend. Well, tell me why she needs to know the details of your relationship? No, if it's a light flirtation or a no-strings-attached relationship, then why not just roll the dice with him?? But once your relationship goes a little further, you'll realize that your boyfriend is now so important to you that hardly anyone else but you can feel something similar for him. That level just isn't available to your LP. Of course, that doesn't mean you can't talk to her about your relationship with your boyfriend at all. But there are some things you don't want to talk about. Here are 7 of those:
Things that piss you off and you haven't talked to him about it yet
If there's something about your relationship that pisses you off and you haven't discussed it with your boyfriend, you're only halfway there. Think about it, you might not know the facts, or you might be wrong. If you tell the LP about it before you talk to your boyfriend, she might get a false impression of your boyfriend. No amount of explaining will fix that. Do you really want the LP to think your boyfriend is a jerk?.. Here's! Figure it out first.
What a lot of people find unacceptable
Every couple has their "weird" habits and secrets. What's acceptable to some people is completely impossible for others. There can't be any general rules. You have to think only of yourself and your interests within the couple. But when people hear something they think is weird and abnormal, they start judging and gossiping. Or worse, try to convince you that you're wrong and need to change your behavior. Why would you do that??..
How happy you are together
You're doing just fine? He's handsome, smart, gives you flowers and gifts? You have an orgasm every time you have sex? You've already discussed your future? Fine! I'm happy. But not everyone is a "pussy" like me, honestly. If your LP is single, don't feed her stories about your all-consuming magical happiness. You're hurting her with it. And then you want her to be jealous of you? Well, that's not very nice
All your little fights
Of course, if he cheated on you and you can't find your place, who else will support you if not the LP. But if you can't decide what to watch at the movies: a romcom or an action movie, then… you have to figure it out yourself. Your friends won't solve all your relationship problems for you. You'll have to work on that yourself.
Anything about your sex life
No, no, and no! While you're not in a serious relationship, it's fun to tell your girlfriends about some awkward, ridiculous, and funny moments in bed. But sex with a guy you feel something for is between you two. Why take the "rubbish" out of the bed? Put yourself in his shoes, would you like it if he told his friends about your behavior in bed??
His personal problems
It's a personal problem for everyone. If he has shared something intimate with you, you shouldn't tell everyone around you about it. Keep his secrets like he keeps yours.
The thing about money
Maybe money issues haven't touched your relationship yet. It's just a warning. But for the future, remember not to tell LP how much your boyfriend earns, how much you lent him, how much money he spent on your gifts, etc.ะด. Just don't talk about money at all. It's only going to make things harder.