Dating is complicated. Especially these days, when a slight swipe to the right or left decides your chances of at least a virtual hookup. And to meet a real person in real life, brrrr! The stress can make you forget your own language, let alone have a meaningful conversation.
But don't drift! Now we'll lay out the right questions to help you avoid awkward pauses. And at the same time to understand, whether it was worth it to be so nervous, and decide whether you need to continue the banquet 🙂
First minutes of the date
If you first met in person, a little awkwardness is inevitable. No one can think of anything to start the conversation with, an awkward pause hangs over… Here are the first five questions to help you out:
- How are you doing?? / How was your day??
- ♪ Where do you live ♪?
- Who do you want to study after high school/study?
- Where do you go to school?? / Where are you thinking of going??
- Tell me more about yourself.
The ice has broken, what's next??
It's a start, and you don't want to run away just yet? Great, now we can get to know each other better. The following five questions can help liven up the conversation:
- How you have fun?
- What's your favorite TV show??
- What concerts you go to, which one you liked the most?
- Tell us about your hobbies, maybe you are involved in some clubs?
- What's your favorite place in town?
When you want to know more
Well, you've got some idea of the man. It's time to move on to bigger things and ask harder questions. They'll help you figure out if you want to be in a relationship with this guy.
- What would you dream of?
- What's your favorite memory?
- If you could talk to anyone from any era, who would it be and why?
- What's your family like??
- What do you want to do with your life??
- And you have nicknames?
- What triggers your strongest emotions?
- What's your greatest pleasure?
- Who is your best friend and how did he become one?
- You've done something that most people don't do?
When the date comes to an end
Well, it's time to decide if you're on your way with this person. Whether you both want a second date or are ready to continue right now. You're both feeling most comfortable right now, so you can ask some pretty candid questions:
- What are your goals in life??
- What's most important to you??
- How do you see your future?
- What do you think your main passion is??
- Which pets do you like best??
It's time to say goodbye
You may have been unimpressed on a first date, so you're ready to say goodbye for good. Or maybe you liked it so much that you're already dreaming of a second one. These questions will help push him along:
- You had a good time?
- What are the plans for this week??
- How about meeting up again??
- Do you want to split the check or should I pay next time??
- Do you want to go see a movie sometime, or go to a cafe??
Not so hard questions, really? Good luck, !