Hi all guys! How you are? I very well, and I confess that I have had some fantastic evenings, one more beautiful than the other and I realized what distinguishes a normal evening from an unforgettable evening.
I am so happy that I want to share this happiness with you, yes, because there is nothing better in the world than helping people to have an even better life.
That's why in this article I'm going to teach you a few tricks to make an evening go, not just well, but beautifully, turning it into an opportunity to meet girls and new people and Improve your social life once and for all.
Social life: how to have a top social life?
I want to introduce you to two fundamental concepts without which you would not be able to fully enjoy the effectiveness of these small tips to have a great social life, and consequently, to turn an ordinary evening into an unforgettable one.
1. From "loser" boy to Real Man
It's time for you to start developing a characteristic that distinguishes a "loser" guy from a True Man: social life.
The speech is very trivial, if your lifestyle is monotonous and not very varied, hardly you will get new opportunities. You're not convinced?
Try to always go out with the same group, always go to the same place… how many girls will you meet outside of the group in a month, about ten if it goes well?
On the other hand, if you try to change groups often, how many new girls will you get to know? A lot more, and you know why?
Because the more people you meet, the more these people will introduce you to other people, and even if they are male, these people will introduce you to their friends.
Bottom line: take care of your social life, it's FON-DA-MEN-TA-LE!
This means taking care of all relationships that you have with people, I said everyone because even old friends with whom you have lost contact, for example, can be valuable in getting to know other people and in addition, like any person, can bring value in your life.
At first, if you have a poor social life and you want to improve it, it will be a bit difficult, because going from a flat lifestyle to an adventurous, exciting and abundant in friends and acquaintances is not easy.
You need to hang in there and commit, hang out with new people and going out of your comfort zone.
This is because, firstly, your mind in the beginning is not used to radically change the lifestyle, and secondly, because the development of new acquaintances happens more or less exponentially.
What I mean? Let me explain further.
If you only know one friend, he will introduce you to two others, and if you maintain a good relationship with these other two friends, they will introduce you to 3 or 4 in turn… you've seen how slowly increase the number of new acquaintances? So put in the effort and see the results you get :-)!
2. It's all in the head
If you're not the first to have fun, how can you have fun and make a girl you like have a great night out? I'll tell you frankly: if you don't enjoy yourself, you've thrown the night away.
I can even hook you up with Megan Fox but if you don't let yourself go, if you don't let yourself get carried away with the desire to have fun, it's going to be hard for you to get uninhibited enough to show the best part of yourself.
You will be a slave to your mental shackles that will take you away from the moment you're living, plus other people and even the girl you're talking to will notice that you're stuck, which is a real shame!
I want to be very clear on this one: you are responsible of the evening.
You can be at a party with lots of people and many beautiful girls to meet, but if you don't have fun, or rather, if you don't know how to have fun, it's as if you were watching the whole thing from a distance, impassive and passive of everything that happens, like a spectator…
So learn to have fun, take charge of the evening, and if you want to know other ways to meet and approach a girl in any situation, even when you're at a party or out with friends, Knows New Women is the ebook for you!
Social Life: 8 tricks to improve your social life
Well, having said that, let's get to the heart of the article, these are 8 little tricks to Improve your social life, you don't have to follow them all, but I encourage you to try them, because these little touches can make more of a difference than you imagine.
1. Take care of your appearance
Dress flashy and elegant, this way you will get into the right mindset and get noticed. The influence that your look has on your innergame is amazing
2. Always invite new people
It sounds obvious, but in truth they don't do it in many. When you get along well with someone you've recently met, why not invite them to a night out with your friends?
Don't ask anyone's permission, just tell your friends you're bringing someone. To all It's nice to meet new people, then invite the people you feel comfortable with, and invite them to bring more friends. Nothing wrong with that, or not?!
3. Go out with "connectors"
The "connectors" are those people who know half the world, those people who when you go out with them stop and say hello to people on the street, a bit like me! Ahahah ;-).
You've noticed that these people value relationships and surround themselves with people they feel comfortable with in every area of their lives? Work, gym, childhood friends, etc
I'll let you in on a secret: there is nothing sexier for a girl than dating a man who surrounds himself with people everywhere he goes and who knows how to be comfortable around people.
Learn from these people, like this you will improve your social life.
I, for example, have a great friend who has introduced me to a lot of new people, and I have learned a lot from him, and I owe him a lot. So hang out with "connectors" to meet new people and especially learn from them how to do it.
4. Suggest a popular venue
If you propose a very popular place, you greatly increase the possibility that the people you have invited will come with you and have a good time. Plus in this type of venue is still you are more likely to meet someone you already know, who will in turn introduce you to his company of friends.
5. Talk to everyone
Yes, you have to be sociable with everyone! Even if you don't like someone very much, Being nice to everyone is a sign of high intelligence social: I'm talking about being nice not servile of course!
Interact with people you've just met, on Saturday night you go out to have fun, so don't bother anyone, they're all there to have fun like you, remember that ;-).
In any case, learn to socialize with bartenders, bouncers, and pr's because they can be very valuable acquaintances, not to mention that walking into a club where you know the bartender is really classy :-)!
6. Accompany or have someone accompany you
It already puts you in the right frame of mind to go out with a friend or accompany your friend to a club, because it makes you feel good and relaxed.
Plus arriving accompanied or in a group has a good impact on other people because gives the impression that you are a sociable man.
7. You make the introductions
When you are in company and maybe meet new people and especially new girls, if you are in company you take the initiative to introduce your friends and girlfriends, some women sometimes have trouble introducing themselves, so you take care of it, you are the focus of the evening ;-).
8. Let every bad mood slip away
During the evening, little things can happen that can put you in a bad mood, you have to learn to let them slide! I'll give you an example that happened to me.
One night I was supposed to pick up a girl I was interested in, and at the last minute she told me she had already settled in with the ride. Too bad that I had done half the city just for her, but I'm pissed off? No!
I remained unperturbed and very quietly I pointed it out to him, then we spent a nice evening together, in fact it was a success ;-)! If I had gotten mad at her I probably wouldn't have done anything or even enjoyed myself.
Or, if a friend of yours makes a joke that's a bit heavy, laugh without showing that it bothers you, always make it funny, in this way you make the evening go well for you and also for others, because if you understand that it's useless to get upset, why get pissed off??!
Then learn to remain imperturbable when you realize that it is not worth it.
9. Be a little goofy
Aahahah! You didn't expect this one right? Well, let's clarify what I mean right away to avoid misunderstandings.
When you study and apply seduction, you increase your seductive skills a lot, but you can also create a no small problem: you run the risk of getting stuck in a pattern, and this has repercussions even when you spend a simple evening with friends.
The Inner Game suffers greatly from this, because you are following a pattern of evaluating your actions and this is not good, because it limits you a lot and the "fear of being wrong" puts you in awe.
Instead, I suggest that you be a bit of a jerk sometimes, that is, get out of these patterns with funny jokes without worrying about whether you're doing right or wrong.
In this way you will free yourself from the fear of judgment of others and the fear of making mistakes, plus you show yourself as a nice and funny person ;-)!
These are some simple tips for improve your social life and turn an ordinary evening into an unforgettable one. So stop saying "I don't have a social life"Put these tips into practice immediately.
I think that's it, if I get any more ideas I'll add them to the list right away.
If you want to read more tips on the meeting people new read this article by Marco.
A big hello from Niko 😉
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