Many of you have asked us how chat with a girl on Instagram and the answer to this question is extremely simple.
Exactly as you would do with normal messages on Whatsapp, absolutely nothing changes.
Now, on how to text I have written many articles that you can find here on the blog. If you're looking for examples of pickup phrases you can check out this article, but if you want to learn how to text in the most efficient and optimized way to get the girl from the phone number to the date there's Messages Method.
Messaging on Instagram follows exactly the same rules but, in this case, the girl will have given you her Instagram contact instead of her phone number.
But it's right to point out one thing: very often when you're a beginner girls propose Instagram simply because you have not convinced them live so they don't want to give you something personal like a phone.
So you might notice that you actually get less response on Instagram than on Whatsapp, but really the platform here doesn't have much to do with it and the problem is the solidity of contact.
And now maybe you're standing there thinking…
"No Gio, I really want to start messaging with the girl on Instagram from scratch, I don't want to meet her live first."
Well in this case you're doing it all wrong, let me tell you why…
Why you should NOT hook up on Instagram
If you want to hook up on Instagram, and you don't have the profile of an Instagram superstar, you're hurting yourself.
And there are a whole range of reasons for this, let me show you:
- Women on Instagram are bombarded with validation from beta males and you on Instagram are just a number;
- On Instagram, the gap between your value and its value is even more to its advantage than in the real world;
- Instagram is not a platform for hooking up. For this there are dating sites and apps. If you try to approach here you appear as desperate;
- On Instagram you have few communication and sub-communication weapons, which you can instead use live to meet women;
- You show up socially stupid because you're trying to approach her in a place where you have less chance of success.
I could go further with the list but basically if you try to hook up on Instagram you just pass as desperate wanker dead.
"So Gio, I need to forget about Instagram?"
No, but you need to understand what Instagram is really for with girls.
Instagram is your own marketing tool with girls and, if optimized, will lead you to have huge advantages. This is because, if you are interested in the girl, she will go to comb through your profile, which will be designed to show her a lifestyle and value better than yours, without showing that you are trying to impress her.
But it's also true that this will take time. Optimizing your profile takes effort and dedication, but it's worth it.
And secondly you first you pick up the girl in person and then you will use Instagram just to put yourself in a good light in an indirect way.
At some point, if you work seriously on your profile, you may get to have an Instagram profile so optimized that you voluntarily exchange that with the girl rather than the phone number, but this will take effort and work.
If you are interested in optimizing your social profiles to maximize the impact you will have on girls, I have created a course where I explain how to do it step by step and it's called Social Media King.
See you soon,
Gio