Because it's important have fun in seduction?
Why laughing and having fun in seducing a woman is a very important thing!
You may find yourself in situations where maybe it won't work out for you, or it will have been a complete disaster or she will have rejected you, but instead of demoralizing yourself or getting down you can just laugh it off and move forward with a smile :-).
This is because it is useless to think that you do not feel up to or capable of approaching a woman, because as we have already read in many articles on the site, depends a lot on the confidence you have in yourself.
So do you feel confident, you know you can approach a woman you like, but maybe the approach didn't go as you hoped, and you know what??
…You can always laugh about it, because when you least expect it, funny situations will arise that when you think about it in another moment you will start laughing and thinking about how clumsy you were or about the two of spades you got from that girl!
Laughing is good in general, it's good every day of our lives, and even more good in seduction, because instead of demoralizing and thinking the worst, we can always look at the ironic side of the situation :-)!!!
So let's have fun, shall we??
First, however, let's reflect a moment on our number one enemy in the seduction of a woman: the anxiety of approach.
L'approach anxiety Is one of our biggest gaps and seems like something insurmountable, something abstract that blocks you in the true sense of the word until you become almost a piece of marble … right?
This article aims a little bit to "denigrate" this freaking anxiety , to mock it from certain points of view, because it is true that at the moment it seems too high an obstacle to overcome, but it is also true that the biggest laughs we have among friends after years are those related to the memories of "two of spades" more or less sensational, of tricks worthy of CIA officials in order to know or combine something with a girl we like, or even those relating to memories of unexpected successes.
That's why it's always worth it to approach the girl you like!
We want to start with me!?!? Are you really sure!?!? Ok . . let's start with me :-).
How to have fun in seduction: here are my adventures…
You should know, dear friends, that when the undersigned was not yet able to approach cold, neither through indirect, nor through the semi-direct and even less the direct, when he was on vacation on the Riviera Pontina "trained" his younger brother who at the time will have had 10-11 years to pretend to get lost in the streets of the city and to ask for help of course to beautiful girls.
And since by pure chance the little brother didn't have his cell phone with him to look for me, the kind and good-natured girls lent their cell phones to the kid to call me.
I was obviously in the neighborhood, I arrived at the place within 10 minutes, and being the consummate actor that I modestly was at the time, I thanked the nice ladies very warmly and invited them to have a drink at the bar ;-).
Or, since I was obviously left the number between the calls received, the next day punctually left the following message: "I don't know how to thank you for last night, I was so worried, to repay you I'll buy you a drink one of these days :-)".
I almost forgot: my brother's son was not doing all this for free…ehh no! What a joke?! It was 5 euros per girl that he was able to seduce for me!
When I think back on it, it doesn't seem true, where did the fantasy come from :-)!
A friend of mine, on the other hand, came to my house one day, very excited, he had just sent a message to a girl he really liked.
He had been after her for quite a while and managing to get her phone number through another person, he had sent her this message: "It's the middle of the night and I'm awake, you're always my stud", which are the words of the very famous song "More".
We were sitting there having a drink, and her cell phone lights up with the message bag flashing on the display.
He gets all excited and picks up the phone and reads the message, I see that he blanches and immediately puts the phone down on the coffee table. Intrigued, I instinctively take the phone in my hand and read the answer of the message, which was: "Hang yourself on this nail…".
I'm laughing to myself right now as I write this . . :-).
These are some funny experiences that have happened to me in trying to impress a girl, and I ended up laughing about it instead of putting myself down or demoralize me!
So don't feel sorry for yourself if your approach doesn't go as you hoped, laugh it off and do what I did: it's okay to have fun in seduction :-)!
I hope to have made you smile, as I think of nice things to tell, I will put them on paper and every now and then you will read some :-).
A hug
The Count
P.S. And you? You have fun stories to tell?