Time flew by quickly and the drama "I know, but…" had already come to an end! Did you like the ending?? Or it seems like the writers got it wrong in the last episode? 🧐
Anyway, there's a lot to learn from this dorama, especially for guys. Really, it's more of a backwards memory. Park Jae He (Park Jae He) is very controversial and confusing to his beloved Na B. and pissed off the whole drama's female audience. Thanks for the good examples, because on this tutorial we're going to tell you how don't How to talk to a girl you like 😉
Mistake #1: Pull-Pull Relationships
Park Jae He enjoyed this technique, because he doesn't need a serious relationship, but showing up periodically in a girl's life and making sure that she will always choose him is such a buzz! No, that's not cool 🤨
Any self-respecting girl will only be repulsed by such tricks, rest assured. If you don't know who you want to be with and you're always looking for something new, you're unstable, immature, and you just haven't gotten around to it. Girls like that don't want to have a serious relationship. At most, they enjoy freedom just as much and can use you a little as you use them. All's fair 😉
Mistake #2: Don't set clear boundaries 👎
The first time a guy and girl look at each other and try to figure out if their friendship and dating will work out anything more. Except, if you, like Jae On, aren't going to move toward that more, it makes sense that you'll delay that moment of decision as far as possible 😑
That's how girls see it. And that doesn't make anyone happy. If you show sympathy, you give her the green light. Then you can back out and the girl knows you're not going to make it. But if you're going to hit on her again without explaining, then… That's not the way to do it. Anyway, warn her how you feel 🤗
Mistake #3: Don't talk about your true feelings 🤐
Speaking of emotions. You have to talk. Body language is often not enough, because everyone can interpret them differently. J He was madly confused about his feelings and unfortunately often his words didn't match reality at all 😕
♪ If you feel something, say it ♪. It's the right thing to do. And there's no need to cheat, because then it won't play into your hands when you want to be honest, but she won't believe you anymore. ♪ Like the boy who called the wolf, remember ♪? 🙄
Mistake #4: Not understanding the word "no" 🤔
For some reason, many guys still perceive rejection as coquetry on the part of the girl… Sure, it still happens sometimes, but in awkward situations (and in general) "no" means "no". Jae He often violated Na B's personal boundaries, which is why he lost her trust 😤
And yes, "no" is a complete sentence. You don't have to be told the reason for the rejection. Don't pester a girl with questions, especially if you see she's uncomfortable. Move on and learn from your experience 😎
Mistake #5: Not leaving a girl a choice 😡
Most guys are naturally really physically stronger than girls. Now, using this to seduce girls into intimacy or to manipulate them is not cool 😬
Suppressing someone else's freedom, and especially someone you love, is still unpleasant, right? After all, the lover doesn't really want the same thing. If you're being resisted, there's something wrong. Try to talk and find out how your partner feels 🤔
Mistake #6: Push her away and then get jealous of everyone you meet 🤡
If you broke up, she has every right to pay attention to whoever she wants, and you know that very well. Except Jae He knew that too, but he was sure that Na Bie would always come back to him. And to back her up, you constantly poke her in the eye and menacingly push away all rivals 😐
If you're jealous, it means you still like her and you don't like seeing her with others, logical? Then decide if you want this relationship and take a step forward or backward, but don't stand in the way 😉
Mistake #7: Ruin her life until she's with you 🤯
But you're still not sure you want to be with her? No, man, that's not how it works. If you can't be there for her like a boyfriend or a good friend, just let her go. I understand that it can be hard, but only you can deal with your feelings 🙌
Jae He reacts in every way he can to Na Bie's every new boyfriend and tries to remind her of himself, but he still keeps her at a distance. Honestly, you wouldn't like a girl doing that to you either? Mean actions and setups won't make you happy, trust me. Just make a choice and move forward! 💔
We hope that Jae On and Na B.'s experience has shown you what a couple shouldn't be. Yes, they're certainly cute-sympathetic, but that kind of drama is best kept away from a serious relationship. But now you're getting it right, right? 😍