Girls are not the only ones who can manipulate guys – some guys are also proficient in this art and actively use it. Well, or just acting disgusting, which is much more likely. Sometimes the flaws in their behavior seem insignificant, but it is these little things that make up the whole picture. Read a list of things your boyfriend definitely shouldn't do if he still wants to be one.
Manipulated
Actually, it's obvious. It's true that we don't always realize we're being manipulated. Universal case – half a month whining about how he is guilty and sorry if he did something wrong. A normal guy would apologize and try not to do it anymore or he would make up for it by doing something nicer. Not the best type – will verbally convince you how sorry he is, inappropriately bring it up and play the beaten dog. Do not believe him – he just hopes for pity and wants to seem better in your eyes, choosing the easiest way. This behavior doesn't mean that the joint won't happen again.
Set the rules
When he's pounding the table, smacking his fingers all over himself, and making you a list of demands and rules as his girlfriend is not cool, doesn't speak in his favor at all, and doesn't make him any more manly. Relationships are about equality and trust. If you're still in the first month of a relationship are forbidden to communicate with other guys, wear dresses to the knee, to be friends with certain girlfriends and go to the dance club – it's not cute as it may seem – the guy just wants to control you and make his life more comfortable.
To give an ultimatum
"If you put red lipstick on your lips, I'll break up with you!", "If you don't like my bros, we'll have to break up!"If we don't get into it right away, I'll leave you, I can't stand it!"First of all, it's all lies – they can tolerate for a very, very long time, and secondly, let it roll. So tell me, why would you want a guy who forces you to do something to the detriment of your own interests? "It's not a question of love, he's using you.
Pick your friends
It often happens that as soon as you get a boyfriend you devote 99% of your time to him and completely disappear from the sight of your friends. They're annoyed, of course, but they're friends, so they can understand and forgive your little foibles. Unless, of course, they're yours and not your boyfriend's elaborate plan to shield you from your friends and completely change your surroundings. It's better to set boundaries, you have the right to communicate with those you like, even if the new boyfriend is not crazy about your BFF.
Criticize
Is there anything you need to explain?? Ironically, remember for life – criticism is never for the good, unless it's two experts discussing the work, when the more experienced teaches the newcomer and expresses CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. Criticizing a specific person is never constructive – only SUBJECTIVE, and you don't have to listen to bad things about yourself, change, or conform to anyone. If he doesn't like your sense of humor, your appearance, or your outlook on life, why did he choose you?? To criticize and vent his discontent?
Lie
Lying is never good, either, contrary to popular belief. He can lie about heroically climbing the fence to pick your flowers in the garden neighbor, and ran away from the dog, but if he lies to you systematically, even in small things – it's alarming red flags. This means that the guy is quite capable of big lies, too..
Jealous
To think that jealousy is a sign of love is as foolish as to believe the phrase: "If he beats you, he loves you. Hits – it means weak-willed jerk, and jealous only unsure of himself guys, and not only unsure of himself, but do not trust you. Wanting to show other guys that you're busy is normal, and shows up in hand-holding, special looks or the like, but not in hysterics over the fact that you smiled wrong at a guy passing by when you were rollerblading. With jealous guys is very difficult and not always safe to date – jealousy often develops into a sense of ownership.