I signs of interest are a godsend for those who begin to learn seduction.
In many cases they allow understand if a girl is attracted or not and then allow you to act accordingly.
But recognizing and reading the signs of interest, or signs of attraction, they hide dangers linked to two things:
1. The internal dialogue during the interaction with a woman, so the voice you have in your head while you are seducing a woman
2. The search for validation-approval from a woman
So on the one hand reading these signals is very useful, on the other hand it should still be done in a certain way so as not to fall into very common mistakes for those who begin their process of seductive improvement.
One question: what does the average man do when he is faced with a woman he wants to seduce?
She offers something, usually to drink, looking for something elseLooking first of all for interest and approval.
When a person studies seduction usually comes from such dynamics and so something as useful as reading the signs of interest can, in some cases, be dangerous.
Because?
Because it reinforces a negative dynamic that's already there, the search for validation-approval-interest.
Before this man was unconsciously looking for signals of interest (signals of validation and approval), now he consciously does it.
Result?
Your whole sub-communication will signal that you're looking for these signals and the woman won't like it. Not only, your internal dialogue will grow by leaps and bounds Throwing yourself into the analysis of what you see.
There is to say that when a person begins to study seduction, in addition to signals of interest, learn other useful things. The overall result is therefore better than before. However it is a mistake, something that keeps you at the bottom and does not allow you to advance.
So, let's say three things.
First, the signals of interest go only seen and not sought, but you probably already know that.
Second, and this is new, it will happen to you as you progress on your seductive improvement journey of Notice more and more how reading signals is done unconsciously and automatically and then your conscious thinking about it will diminish.
So what you will have to do is act without thinking much about it, let your instincts do the rest.
Third, because you don't see signals doesn't mean there weren't any, on the contrary! It's true, every woman sends signals that are often similar, but at the same time every woman is different.
So, while it's helpful to read the signals at first, as you go along my advice is to give a damn more and more and go ahead with the seduction, so much Your instincts work for you, Automatically and for free 😉 If you have read
In this way your internal dialogue will decrease making the interaction better. Also you will not be dependent on the signals of her going then straight on your way, as "one who already knows how it's going to turn out," does this phrase remind you of anything? 😉 If you've read Instant Attraction you know what I'm talking about!
Consider that the your instincts are already programmed to read these signals. What we do is enhance it for a while in a conscious way, and then let it go on its own like a well-trained bloodhound.
"But Reborn, you couldn't explain all this stuff right away?"
No, as with many activities You have to consciously do certain things first, but then you don't think about it anymore.
When you learn to ski first they teach you how to shift your weight, and you have to think about it, then you go automatic, but there are steps you can't skip.
I'm assuming that the people reading this are seriously motivated people, people who understand that you can't do everything right away. You have to follow a certain path for reading signals of interest, as well as for many other things.
But let's recap what you need to do in practice
I say this because I want every article to be followed by actions, otherwise what are we doing here, sewing circle?
The concept is: after you've been reading the signals of interest for a while, start not looking at them more and more and let your instincts work for you.
Even if you don't see any signs, go on your way, your instinct will guide you and you will understand on your own how to act and, if she doesn't like it after a few attempts, when to stop trying.