Having issues in frequent with a girl we’re enthusiastic about is undoubtedly very helpful. On the similar time, nevertheless, it isn’t elementary, or somewhat is just not important in a given part of seduction.
Having issues in frequent not obligatory in attraction part, however very helpful in rapport part (to raised perceive the steps have a look at this web page). Within the attraction part a girl decides in case you are a potential sexual accomplice, i.e. in case your genes might combine with hers (to offer kids), within the rapport part she already likes you, she has to determine if she’s going to see you once more, if she’s going to begin desirous about a relationship with you and so on. and so on. She doesn't do these ideas rationally, a minimum of for probably the most half they’re unconscious mechanisms.
So we stated: having issues in frequent is just not obligatory within the attraction part part of attraction.
On this part are necessary different issues that point out above all in case your genes are "good", that’s if uniting them together with his can be born an offspring able to surviving, robust, wholesome, and self-confident. Because of this a girl will search for, amongst others, these traits in a person.
Higher a match man than a fats one, higher a wholesome man than a sick one, higher a assured one than an insecure one…and so forth. To those traits will be blended many others: relying on how a girl has grown up, the stage of her life, and likewise her genetic heritage, she’s going to give kind of significance to sure traits, in any other case it could not clarify how some very shy and unfortunate folks handle to have a girl.
So, within the attraction part, having issues in frequent will be helpful however it isn’t obligatory, different traits are what depend.
Quite the opposite, within the rapport part a deeper relationship is established between you and her. She makes positive, consciously or unconsciously, that there are affinities between you, that you’re not solely a assured individual but in addition one who might care for her.
On this part you actually know one another, that's why having issues in frequent is essential. Watch out although: the "issues" in frequent will be specific and simply seen, corresponding to the identical tastes or the identical hobbies, however they may also be deeper, corresponding to the identical worldview, the identical values… and so forth. The second ones are crucial.
What to do then in follow to seduce a girl?
Within the first part (attraction) don't deal with issues in frequent, as a substitute present different traits corresponding to confidence, positivity, liking and so on. and so on.
Within the second part (rapport) go forward and ask her questions to seek out out what she likes and what you have got in frequent, simply you may construct a pleasant dialog on this. On the similar time, nevertheless, don’t continuously ask questions to seek out out every part about her, a girl perceives the forcing and in case you are keen to point out her that you’ve issues in frequent she’s going to classify you as an individual of little worth.
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