There are 2 fundamental signals that can compromise your approach to a girl two mistakes that indicate that you're not a good candidate looking for approval/validation from a woman, and therefore that you consider her of value higher than yours.
As you know, the non-verbal language mistakes that can be made in seduction are many, but these 2 are not just any mistakes but indicate a very specific thing: "I want your approval, I want you to like me at all costs".
These are the most frequent mistakes that men make in this sense, and they are so bastards that occasionally happen even to the most experienced seducers, those with more experience.
So these are nonverbal language errors, to be precise:
- The first is of body language, specifically referring to facial expressions
- The second of of paraverbal language (so the "how you say things").
Mind you that if they ask me what is the Number one mistake men make in their approach, the mistake on a practical level, I would say these two. Not the corny phrases, not the buying drinks, but these bastard mistakes !
And I'm not just talking about approaching a stranger (cold approach), I'm also talking about when you meet a new person through friends or people in common (hot approach).
At this point the question arises: "If they are so common, why didn't you include them in the report "Seduction: the 37 most common mistakes"?"For a simple reason, the report is made for people who arrive on this site and must orient themselves, so in general is made for those who take their first steps in the world of seduction.
At first you are not able to understand everything, only very obvious things such as whether offering a drink is wrong. Then, as time goes on and experience grows, the ability to understand and notice new details acquires greatly, and so I can teach you and you can learn new things that you would have struggled to pick up on before.
So, what are these 2 mistakes that they are compromising your approach?
1. Raised eyebrows
Raising your eyebrows is the most frequent body microsignal Burning your chances of success.
The scenario is always the same, the first few seconds you meet a girl you raise your eyebrows and frown. That's when you send a very clear signal "Approve me being superior" .
Okay, it's a bit exaggerated in the picture but I chose it on purpose to make the idea of how annoying it is to have a person talk to you while raising their eyebrows like that.
Why it's annoying?
Because if a person does that with you, it sub communicates to you that wants a few things from you (wants value).
Remember when we talked in previous Premium Group articles about how manipulative seduction is taking value from others? Well, this is the exact same thing:
Raised eyebrows = search for value = person of low value
When I say "value" I mean value of any kind, in seduction it is usually validation and approval, but in other contexts the value will be different, for example it could be money or special concessions.
But… in which moments of seduction happens more frequently this mistake?
First of all in theapproach, because it's the most tense time, when people of low worth (or who perceive themselves as such) try to please others at all costs.
Then, when you make requests. For example when you ask for the number, ask if you want to sit somewhere, if you want a drink, etc. etc.
Some micro-expressionist might say, "But eyebrows don't just rise in the case you're talking about, they also rise in moments of surprise, for example.".
Ok, close your eyes and imagine first a surprised person and then one seeking validation. Then do it too, act surprised and then express your quest for approval.
You can see it clearly, and you can even feel it on your face: the two expressions are different and our instincts clearly distinguish them.
Let's see the second error, even more frequent and dangerous.