It may happen, in certain moments of one's life, that a woman needs a particular type of male figure.
If at that moment she finds a man who lends himself to fill the role she is looking for, a very specific dynamic is established.
Today we are talking about 3 types of male figures, 3 types of roles that are certainly not beautiful but that can be seen around us and therefore it is useful to know so as not to end up in them without realizing it.
I will also explain how not to fall into these roles, because as always in interpersonal relationships, things are done in two.
In other words, a woman can look for a type of man, as we'll see in a moment, but if you manage to unhinge this dynamic she won't need it anymore.
And you, if you obviously have the masculine characteristics we talk about so much, will be her Man, not just another small role.
Here are the 3 figures:
1. The man Charon
Do you remember who is Charon?
Charon is the figure who transports souls on his boat through the river Styx, the infernal river.
In the collective imagination, Charon is the person who ferryman par excellence, doesn't move from the boat and does nothing but carry souls from one side to the other.
When a man plays the role of the ferryman?
When it takes a woman to bring her from one relationship to another, or from one relationship to an acceptable emotional state.
When an important relationship ends a woman may find herself broken, hurt, distressed, looking for affection and understanding.
It is precisely in this case that the Charon man comes into play, the man who takes her as soon as a relationship is over, consoles her, until she feels better e she finds that she doesn't like him as much.
That's when she gets off the boat, waving goodbye to the poor ferryman In other words, a woman can look for a man .
How not to be a Charon man? How not to fall into the trap?
Watch out for girls who have just come out of long and important relationships, do not press them too much, By offering your affection anyway you make sure that learn to stand on their own two feet.
Remember that if you offer too help for a woman in a critical phase you only hurt them, because she doesn't learn to make it on her own, on her own strength.
Don't be a crutch, crutches are thrown away once you heal, rather be the person who shows the own presence while alone a wounded woman tries to walk.
In this way, on the one hand you will do her good, on the other hand you will not end up in a role that is not convenient for you.
2. The waiting room man
The waiting room man is the man a woman uses in the absence of anything else she likes.
It's really a waiting room, where a woman stays until it's her turn, and her turn in this case is represented by another man, a man she really likes.
Often waiting room men can be friends transformed, for the occasion, into something more.
The waiting room man is a lot like the ..
3. Bearing Man
Useful when a woman takes a crush for a man (but still doesn't get into a relationship) but he either doesn't want her or dumps her quickly, even before she starts anything serious.
In this case a woman, instead of crashing, instead of seeing her ego fall to the ground and shatter, seeks a cushion to break her fall, a buffer that serves her only to feel that someone adores her.
In other words, it is a medicine for the ego, a momentary anesthetic, until the wound to the pride passes.
You can notice men waiting rooms and men bearing when she:
- wants a lot of attention but is not willing to give it
- gives attention but are only ways to receive it
- does not want to have sex (it can happen)
- she wants to have sex but immediately afterwards she doesn't let herself be pampered
These are obviously not sure signals, the cause of these behaviors could also be other, but it is still worth paying attention to them.
How not to fill these roles?
This is very simple: do not make the basic mistakes from the Report "Seduction: the 37 most common mistakes", especially do not beg for approval.
If you do, she will immediately realize she has found a chicken to pluck.
P.S. All the behaviors of a woman, in these cases, are not conscious, a woman does not behave like this because "she is a bitch" or "she is bad", are unconscious dynamics that unfortunately exist.