Being decisive is one of the things that makes more to drive a woman crazy, so it creates in her a lot of attraction.
At this point it comes naturally to ask: what to do in practice to be decided? What to do to express confidence and thus attract a girl?
There are many ways, for now I propose you 6.
Let's begin:
1. Set yourself a clear goal
For what you want this woman? A relationship? Sex? You want to get to know her more and decide later what you want from her?
Different goals will lead to different ways of behaving. One who wants a story does not act in the same way as someone who is just looking for a night of sex.
The more clearly you know what you want, the more precise your actions will be. Many men are so desperate that for them it is enough to have a woman and everything is fine, so they end up accepting everything she wants.
2. Hush that damn little internal voice
You know that little voice that tries to bring you down by saying things like, "You're not good enough for her" or "She's too good for you" or "She'll never go for it."?
That's it: that little voice is your worst enemy, because the biggest limits are the ones we impose on ourselves. Don't listen to that voice, never!
Don't even ask yourself where that voice comes from, you'll waste time in long and ineffective self-analysis, just remember that the negative internal voice wants to sabotage you, it doesn't want your good, and shutting it up will be very useful to increase your self-esteem.
3. Don't care what other people think
While you are trying with a girl you can have around people you know or strangers, don't waste time wondering what they will think of you if you try, they have their own lives and they have other things to think about, and deep down you really want to let your life be affected by what you assume others think of you?
I'll tell you a secret: people don't give a shit about you!
Yes, it's really true, we all think we're the center of attention but in reality everyone is so busy thinking it that no one cares too much about others.
Of course it's obvious, we're not talking about close friends, relatives, etc… etc., we are talking about acquaintances and strangers. Here, these really care little about you, so don't waste time worrying about other people's judgment.
4. Look into her eyes
Don't lower your look when your eyes meet for the first time, don't pretend not to look at her and don't be shy.
Increase more and more the time you keep eye contact (the time you look in each other's eyes), this in talking to a girl is a great signal of decision.
5. If you want to do something: do it!
Don't Think "What will she think of me if I do this or that??" .
By doing so you would be assuming a mindset where she is the judge and you are the judged…so you have already lost from the start.
Define instead what you want it and go get it.
6. Don't wait too long to try
What is the right time to hit on a girl? Often, not always, as soon as possible.
The longer you wait, the more he will think you don't have the balls to do it and he will lose attraction. In conquering a woman the sooner you make your moves the better.
Life is only one, fight for what you want, don't give up at the first difficulties!
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