Think of a beautiful woman, not beautiful because the media told you so, beautiful for you.
Picture her in your mind vividly and now give her all those characteristics you've always dreamed of in a girl.
Done? Well.
If you haven't done so please do so before continuing, it's important.
Now that you've created the woman of your dreams, ask yourself honestly:
– I am worthy of her?
– I feel equal?
– I can give you everything you need?
If the answer is "NO" to even one of these questions, then this is the article for you.
Because one of the first problems that arise when approaching seduction is the fact that men do not feel worthy of the women they are trying to seduce.
Let's get this straight: they didn't feel like one before either, they just didn't know it.
Seduction techniques are very useful, but their primary objective is to generate a inner change, even in the an individual's perception of himself.
Because the perception of our value is fundamental, we can overestimate or underestimate ourselves.
Let's take an example..
Let's take an imaginary woman: beautiful, intelligent and nice.
The value of this woman is high in the eyes of most men but she doesn't feel that way. In fact, you have a distorted perception of yourself by default, that is, you strongly underestimate yourself.
She looks in the mirror and sees herself as ugly, focuses on the few people she has problems with, and feels like a social loser…
What will happen?
What will happen the image she has of herself (self-image) will be sub-communicated to everyone, and instead of communicating high value, she will communicate mediocre value.
You'll be able to tell by so many things: the way you talk, the way you move, your facial expressions, the way you react to people.
On the other hand, if this girl saw herself for who she is, or even if she overvalued herself, everything would be different, it will communicate many more positive things and others will perceive it for sure.
Would appear much sunnier, with good energy, and also more beautiful. Yes, more beautiful, because our conception of beauty as something static is wrong.
If a person feels good all his expressions change and becomes undoubtedly more beautiful.
But let's come to us.
Maybe you've just started a journey of seductive growth and self-improvement… what do you need to do?
In the beginning you have to Overestimate yourself, it will seem strange but it is so.
You have to accept yourself for what you are and like you. And when you hear that little internal voice that says, "I'm not worthy of her," you don't have to listen to it.
And you know what the funny thing is? That when you start to overestimate yourself your value will increase instantly.
Because you'll like yourself and sub-communicate it to others. Exactly like the girl in the example, you will communicate the perception you have of yourself and if you think you have a high value your energy, your way of behaving towards people, will change radically.
At the same time this "mind game" will not be enough: you will have to improve yourself to then align your self-image with reality.
At that point you will no longer need to overestimate yourself, because you will be sure that your value is high.
You'll be sure that you can bring everything she needs into a woman's life by.
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