A lot of men take care to approach groups of people, especially while these people are having a conversation.
The common fear is to disturb, This is a very common belief that is debunked.
Raffaele In a comment asks:
Question: is it wrong to try to pick up a girl when she is with her friends?? Because there is a girl (precisely the one of my dreams :Q___) who is always with her friends at the bus stop and I honestly don't know whether to go and talk to her with the risk of disturbing her or to avoid. I want her! […]
You want it? Perfect, if you want it you have to pick her up!
Your fear is that you'll be disturbing, so let's dispel that myth.
And if you never see her again?
First of all, you are in a privileged situation: if you don't approach her one day, you can approach her the next. But we usually see women that if we do not approach, we will never have the opportunity to seduce!
How many beautiful unknown women do you see in a week?? Obviously it depends on how much you go out, where you go out, and what job you have, but in general you see a lot more beautiful women you don't know rather than women you do know.
And what is the point?
The point is that they usually stay in groups of two or more people!
Especially in nightclubs, where there is a good concentration of women, girls stay in groups!
How many lonely girls do you see out on a Saturday night? I would say almost none, if you see her she is usually waiting for someone she knows, or she is looking for a man, but in Italy this is not very common.
Interrupt the usual conversations
Have you ever found yourself out with friends, and at some point a nice person interrupts you while you're talking?
What have you done? You kicked it away? No, I don't think so. You let him talk because Everyone loves meeting new and positive people. What you were saying to your friend you can tell him at another time, it's certainly not a problem.
The exact same thing is for all groups.
Take for example the group with the girl you like. She's at the bus stop with her friends, and usually with her friends you talk Always the same things.
I don't mean to imply that they are boring conversations, but don't you think that if something new happened they would all be interested in the event?
Yes, they would be.
First because it's not that common a man approaching a woman, at least if it's done decently, and girls loving these things, will watch enjoying the interaction.
Second, if you approach them well You will be an interesting person to know! Remember: everyone loves meeting new people, even the friends of the girl you like.
If your friends like you, You will be favored to meet the woman you want.
The winning mentality
What is the right mindset to understand this situation?
The mentality is that of the real man who brings value to a woman's life. Once you incorporate these mindsets, your entire view of seduction will undergo a radical change.
Think about it: if you were her wouldn't you want a guy to approach you as you are must, maybe make you laugh, create attraction and then get to know each other better and go out?
Of course he does, in fact intimately he hopes so every single moment!
Wouldn't you like to meet a wonderful woman and go out with her?? Of course you would want that…and it's the exact same thing for her.
The difference lies in the fact that you are the one who has to approach, because you are a man!
She knows perfectly well, that's why once you've approached her she'll at least pay some attention, she'll want to see what you're made of.
Men and women unconsciously already know the rules of the game of seduction, the problem arises only when men are afraid to play the game.
P.S. If you want to learn more about the bring value mentality, which is the core of natural seduction, click here.