Communication bans usually come from people who are jealous and prone to possessiveness, but rarely can anything good come out of this. Let me explain why: if a guy is jealous of you at the beginning of a relationship, it's understandable, but if he's jealous, as they say, of every pole, then you need to think about. In the future it may turn into a constant scandals on an open space, phone checks and a variety of violations of your rights and freedoms. And if at the stage of the candy and bouquet period it can be tolerated, because you will be fully immersed in the relationship and romance, but then it becomes a real problem. What to do if the guy forbids you to see his girlfriends?
Is there a reason for jealousy??
Of course, a little jealousy can mean that your partner cares and is just afraid of losing you. And yet she shouldn't interfere with your normal life. Some girls, while in a relationship, keep looking for a better match, texting others or accepting advances, then it's worth wondering if you need someone who's around. It might be easier to break up now so you don't break his heart in the future. If there is no reason to be jealous, but the scandals are still present – this is the first bell. There is a lack of trust in your relationship and this needs to be fixed.
Talk to him
The first thing two people in love need to do when they start fumbling for a problem is to talk. One is explaining his worries and fears, the other is trying to allay them. Ideally, the dialogue should end with a compromise that satisfies everyone. If you can't find a compromise, that's the second bell.
What's wrong with girlfriends?
There are friends who can be a bad influence on you. For example, people with bad habits often invite others to hang out, and jealous girlfriends (and there are some) can turn you against your own boyfriend. Another common option is when your significant other is actually secretly in love with you and is also interested in you breaking up. In all of these cases, you may not be aware of your "faults" around you, and your boyfriend may be trying to keep you from being a bad influence… Still it is necessary to discuss, after all the boyfriend is not the mother, and you are a person with a head on his shoulders and the right to choose. Are you ready to give someone up for a relationship??
Do not speculate with the phrase "be my husband, then you will decide
Okay, let's say he agrees to those terms. But do you really think that a married girl wants to sit at home all the time and devote 100 percent of her time to the household?? No. This will also cause constant arguments, so it's better not to blackmail.
If you can't solve the problem, run
If your boyfriend's jealousy seems unhealthy, humiliating, scandalizing, or trying to force you to stay home, there is no better solution than to end the relationship. There may be an abuser around you that you should be wary of.
The norm is when…
In a normal relationship, partners have nothing to hide. So if you ask him for his phone – he won't say "wait" and frantically delete text messages (and vice versa). At the same time, everyone should have the right to their personal life, their friends and their hobbies. At first you and the guy really will resemble a unit, but once you get enough of each other, you want to diversify your social circle. And if you're being held back, it means something's going wrong. To wonder where he is and with whom, to write or call is normal, it's a sign of concern. But feeling like you're under the gun 24/7 is not the coolest feeling. Remember, the best display of love is when you let your partner be you and he does the same to you. And this applies not only to communication with girlfriends, but also to everything else. It's time to get away from the idea that if you're a woman, your home is a fortress in which you must exist. It's the 21st century.