Here we are at the eleventh point of the list on how not to end up in the friendship zone with a woman. Today I'm talking about theimportance of not betraying their principles in the seduction of a woman.
While talking to a girl the communication can be on different levels: joking, serious, committed etc. etc.
I other terms you are talking to a girl and the conversation can get playful, flirty, or even a bit more serious.
When the talk gets a little more serious there are men who in order to seduce a woman they pretend to agree on everything, maybe because they think they have a special girl in front of them, or more likely because it is their normal way of doing things with women.
She: "I like soap operas."
Him: "Yeah they're cute."
Her: "Pick me up at 8"
He: "Yeah sure" (maybe he was better off with a different schedule…)
Her: "I think I'm a sociable, outgoing person"
Him: "Yes yes it's true, you're really special."
I mean, no matter what she says he pretends to agree: he is okay with everything, he agrees with everything, and he thinks that this serves to "get it done".
The great thing is that this "strategy", in addition to being stupid, is also counterproductive, so it does not help you at all in seduction, it is of no help in impressing a girl, in fact it is a mistake that makes things worse.
Why? Why she notices.
Women smell these things, there is little to do! It's like they have really powerful microprobes , and if you think about it, it's not that hard to tell certain lies, you just have to read some body signals, or maybe the inflection of the voice.
Once a girl notices that a man does not have a solid structure she immediately loses interest.
What I mean by solid structure? The fact that he has a set of values and principles and that he defends them, that he is not willing to sell them for a woman.
Also, and this is even more important, if a man pretends to always agree, it means he has no choice when it comes to women, on the contrary! You mean he's so desperate that he has to lie to get into bed with someone! Worse: he has to say he likes soap operas to sleep with someone!!!
These are not conscious reasoning, a woman doesn't sit around thinking about all these things, but she certainly doesn't need to!
Her subconscious, trained and programmed to figure out which partner is best for her, does all the work in a split second and zac: you lost 1.000 points.
Now, I'm certainly not saying that we should get into an argument.
If you think differently, it is necessary to propose your ideas, in a decisive way if necessary, but always with mutual respect. In addition to showing confidence, it's also essential to get to know each other. How can you seduce a woman if she doesn't know anything about you??!
At the same time you're careful about topics that are very important to her, topics that get her hot or that particularly affect her. We all have arguments that we feel are very important and if someone thinks differently from us we tend to get heated.
Obviously an argument, or worse a fight, is not the best thing to seduce a woman, so if you perceive that you are touching a topic that makes her warm up change the subject with elegance, If it is so important, maybe you can talk about it at other times in the future.