Good girls don't exist.
Someone at this point jumps out and says "But I know this woman, who blah blah blah.."
No, sorry, that's not a good girl either.
Obviously, you have to understand the terms.
If good girl means:
- A woman who has never cheated.
- A woman who has always been chaste and pure in bed
- A woman who has never gone easy on someone.
Then they exist, we agree. It can happen what I have listed but the point is something else. The question is: these things did not happen to her because she didn't want them to, or because there was never the opportunity?
Usually the answer is a third one: because they haven't had to deal with good seducers.
Let's take the first example: a woman who has never betrayed.
Something like this is determined by several factors including the strength of this girl's values, the attraction she felt to her men and the skill of those who tried.
The fact is that her values may be strong, and she may be very much in love with her man but if one night, by chance, she is being courted by a good seducer, I can assure you that she Will dream of letting go and doing him.
He will never admit it! Not even to herself! Because if she did she would feel like an easy one, or doubts might arise about her relationship with her boyfriend. But if the hitter is good, she'll flirt without even realizing it!
There is nothing to do, we can say we are rational and civilized as much as we want, but our instincts are the ones that guide us the most, instinct is much stronger than reason.
We take therefore the second example: a woman who has always been moderate in bed.
This type of woman can exist, sure. But do you think she likes never letting go all the way through? Absolutely not, a woman wants to have sex really and with all the passion needed!
The problem may arise from the fact that some men take care of themselves and think, "That's a good girl, she'll never do X and Y in bed".
What ?!?!?!? But we are crazy!
Excuse my bluntness but she dreams, desires, wants deeply to be fucked properly! She feels pleasure in doing everything that allows her to let go, there are no women who do not want this deep down. It's the 21st century anyway! By now, women who have been "pure" in bed are very few.
But we take the third example: a woman who has never gone easily with someone.
The question is the same as point one: if it is never go easily with someone is mainly a matter of skill of the seducer! Every woman dreams of an unexpected and fiery affair, but at the same time does not want to be perceived as easy, as a result she will hold back … but maybe she will let herself go on vacation, where there are no friends to judge her.
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What are the consequences for us seducers?
The consequences are that excuses like "I will never be able to do X or Y with her" are just bullshit. A woman dreams of doing crazy things with you!
Surely there are women in their lives who have let themselves go less, and played into the role of the "serious girls". Note however the verb I used: "have played in the role", that is they have acted, as if it were a little theater, convinced that that was the right thing to do.
With this kind of women you have the full responsibility of what happens, because they will not be the ones who try with you, or who send you strong signals of attraction.
I've always said that the man must lead the games, well in this case must lead them even more. But the moment she finally lets go because of you, that moment will be wonderful, for you and for her. If you can bring out the wild and passionate woman inside, deep down she will be grateful to you for a lifetime.