They say that Women love with their ears and men with their eyes. And, you know, there's a grain of popular wisdom in that. It's really hard for guys to fall in love with a girl without ever seeing her in person. That is, both with their minds and hearts they can understand that you are very cool and unique, even get attached to you and get used to you. But here love (straight really), most likely, you will get only after a personal meeting.
But it is easier for girls to be attracted to guys on the Internet, because in addition to physical appearance, we react to a bunch of other things. For example, many psychologist Sigmund Freud's patients fell hopelessly in love with him, even though he was far from handsome! What was so special about Freud "taking" girls? He did Listen carefully and sympathetically. So yes, many of us do love with our ears. 😉 But not just them 😉
Spoiler: Fall in love with a guy you met online and have never seen in real life, You can (not to be confused: falling in love and being in love are two different things). Let's explain how and why.
Text
It sounds absurd, but many people fall in love… with the messages they are sent. That is, you, even without seeing a photo of the person you met on the Internet, make up your opinion about him by analyzing the phrases he sends you in a chat. A stranger can reject me at once if he spells the word "stairs" without a "t" (he's an ignoramus)!), and maybe like, give the impression of a literate guy, if he starts to put in commas, sometimes send playful smileys, jokes and make such compliments, which in real life would not turn language.
Anyway, with the help of ordinary letters people can make all kinds of impressions, even manipulate! In addition, you unconsciously begin to complete the portrait of the interlocutor, filling the "holes" that are unknown about him, that you would like to see in your ideal boyfriend. И at some point you can feel yourself falling in love. But not into the person on the other side of the screen, but into his image made up by you!
Voice
If you and a guy from the network start exchanging voice messages, then the chance of falling for him increases many times over. Do you know why?? Scientists have proven that guys who have a low tone of voice give girls an impression of protectiveness and immediately evoke trust and admiration. So it's much easier for you to fall in love with a guy who speaks in bass rather than one whose voice timbre is high.
Rumors and gossip about him
Sometimes you start chatting online with a guy you have never met, but your classmates or friends know him. If they talked about how cool and cool he was, it would be even easier to fall in love with him. This is where the social instinct kicks in: if something is already socially approved, it is unlikely to prove uninteresting and bad.
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Pictures on social networks can also play a cruel joke with your feelings. Bright filters, the right angles, seductive smile… Just like Archie Andrews from "Riverdale"! And then you guys go out, and you realize something's wrong. Wrong gestures, strange look, swear every word, and he was shorter than you expected. Falling in love immediately dissipates. Unfortunately, it happens, so you need to remember that you should not judge a book by its cover, even in the XXI century (especially in the XXI century).
In short, to get stuck on a guy you have never seen is really possible. But to love him, hardly.