Hi everyone, I'm Niko, a very loyal user of this site, which I have been attending for over a year, and now I'm part of the team.
Like most of you I also come from a disaster situation with women.
I not only didn't have a way with women at all, I was incapable of making mistakes because I was too proud of myself :-)! So besides being wrong I was not even questioning myself.
So I decided to put my soul into it, and I began to follow and practice Marco's advice, I really made every kind of mistake you can make in seduction, and all the embarrassments imaginable, but I put a huge commitment and now I have to say that it is a whole other thing: now I'm much more successful with women, and my life has completely transformed.
I had an insight the other night about a very important topic that could be helpful to many of you, and I proposed it to Marco, I hope you like it!
Happy reading
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I want to talk to you about something very important in seduction, which ties in a lot with expressing the real man in us, what I'm talking about? From sexual charge.
What is the sexual charge?
It could be something like sexual tension, being proud of your sexual needs, or attractiveness
The answer is yes and no! Let me explain:
- Sexual charge is similar to sexual tension but in a way encompasses it
- The sexual charge ha to do with being proud of their needs because it is a behavior that starts from this assumption
- Sexual charge creates a lot of attraction
So it encompasses these things but fits into a more specific context: interaction with a woman.
Sexual charge: the difference between "dork" and real man
Now I ask you to imagine a person who has a way with women, imagine him interacting with a woman and trying to create attraction in a woman, done? No? Do it now!
How to behave? He'll be a little cheeky, drive her a little crazy and even joke about it!
It will create in this way an erotic/playful context which will generate a very high peak of attraction especially in her.
This is the sexual charge: being able to express the most sexual part of yourself while interacting with a woman.
Now imagine a dork (what we call a "loser" in everyday life) and a guy who has a way with women, and put a gorgeous girl in front of them.
The awkward guy will try to hide his own sexual charge that the pretty girl has generated for him, because he doesn't want her to realize he likes her! If not, help! We will all die! Save yourself!
The real man, endowed with masculine energy, will express a very high sexual charge while talking to a girl, joking about how much she likes him and that he wants to get her into bed, creating an exciting context and creating curiosity in her.
The man who can do it then he expresses sexual charge and transmits it to the woman he likes.
But what are the principles by which expressing this sexual charge works?
- Show you're not intimidated by her, But both you and she are on equal footing
- Demonstrate that you have the Confidence of those who already know how it goes
- To show that you have strength, that is Male characteristic that allows you to lead the woman, who lets herself be carried away by you
- Demonstrate that you are proud of your sexual needs
- Create high peaks of attraction
- Bring the woman's mind to exciting thoughts, creating an erotic context
In other words, you name it :-).
Now, I want to clarify just one thing: sexual charge is both a matter of quality and quantity.
By quality because, for example, you can make spicy jokes but you can do it like a "horny" guy, the kind of guys who are a bit succubus and hope for it thinking they are smart :-).
Or you can do it with masculine energy, acting like a real man in this way.
Using masculine energy, you will behave like a real man who is proud of his sexual needs and who knows how to create a very high sexual charge.
So remember that you have to be spontaneous and natural ;-).
By quantity because, for example, if you're alone at home with the woman you seduced you can express a very high sexual charge, but if you're with friends you'll take it a little slower. I therefore recommend Calibrate yourself according to the context and the person you're with.
Finally, it depends on your goals: if you want to have only sex with a woman (very high sexual charge) or if you want to have a relationship with her that is not only sexual (lower sexual charge).
Generally the charge is expressed in a gradual and increasing way, but it is not said, it always depends on the situation.
Sexual charge: how to express it
Let's look at some examples how to express your sexual charge:
- With jokes and hints that you really like her and want to sleep with her 😉
- Lowering his tone of voice and moving closer to her
- If you're a little shy joke about it by playing the part of the Latin lover with a sensual voice
Some examples of phrases:
– " Wow! You drive me crazy
– " Wow! How sexy are you"
– " Don't think you're overdoing that cleavage? I'm a man, you know these things drive us crazy."
– " You are really a beautiful woman, when we finish the evening I want to take you to bed" 😉
– " You and I are going to have a hot night tonight."
These phrases you can tell her in a joking way, or seriously, I repeat, it depends on the situation and the woman you are with, I, for example, joke a lot because for me it's all fun :-).
Okay, so since I'm a perfectionist and I care deeply that you can do these things, I realize that some of you may still be a little too shy (check out here for overcome your shyness)!
No problem! Now I'm going to recommend some exercises that can help you a lot:
- Develop the mindset of someone who already knows how it goes present in Instant Attraction
- Imagine yourself doing these things and go into your imaginary self feeling every feeling or emotion you feel at that moment (I recommend doing relaxation first to increase its effectiveness)
- If you already have the Ebook, do the Instant Attraction exercise on being proud of your needs
- List at least 5 solutions to the problem and divide your goal into three micro sentences (you can take inspiration from this article published on PsychologiaNeurolinguistica.net)
- Use the "as if…" technique (contained in Confident in 60 days and Overcome shyness in 30 days)
- Develop strength day by day, that is that positive tension that allows you to shape the world as you wish
These exercises can help you become a real man, confident and able to express sexual charge and convey it to the woman you like.
Phew ! I think that's it, let me know if you liked it and do not hesitate to tell me your opinion in the comments below :-).
Greetings from your..
Niko