I was asked a very important question about something I had written in this article, specifically about the tests that a woman can do, a fundamental aspect of seduction!
In the article in question I wrote:
3. Be careful with his tests
She is used to men doing everything for her, consequently at the beginning of the interaction she will try to treat you like she does everyone else. The test could range from simply asking you to buy her a drink to asking you what kind of car you have (I'm not joking: I've actually been asked this question!).
At that point if you fall into the trap the game is over. Game Over, another loser who qualifies or tries to buy her approval.
The question posed by B In a comment is:
Hi, could I know how you responded and any other answers to the questions:
What car do you own?
You buy me a drink / dinner … etc etc?
Let's first understand the concept.
A woman will test you to see how much you are worth, much of which will be in the attraction phase. If a woman tests you don't be scared: it is a good sign, it means that she is attracted!
These tests can take many forms, one of these is precisely asking you to buy her a drink or something like that. That's not the only way a woman has to test you, it's by a way, by the way very obvious, because there are ways much more "bitchy" and difficult to identify.
Many, many things can be said about these tests, but now I want to focus on what is the most important rule to pass these tests, that is what you must absolutely follow, the one to always keep in mind.
If in fact you answer the question directly you are finished, the attraction is destroyed, especially in this case where the questions imply a " I want to see if you crawl at my feet like everyone else ".
What to do then?
Do not answer. Whatever you decide to do don't answer the question and you passed the test. As a result, attraction will grow as your unconscious will say "But who is this that doesn't fall into my net? I can not understand it".
This non-response can be done in many ways, below I give some examples.
When faced with the question "What car do you have?" you could:
- change the subject, i.e. pretend I didn't ask the question
- laugh and change the subject
- smile condescendingly and change the subject
- respond with sarcasm, for example: "Car?! Wish I had one! All you need is a tricycle?!!"
- turn the question , "What car do you have YOU?!"
- laugh out loud and say "Ha ha, I can't believe you asked me that" so that you feel embarrassed
For the second question:
"Buy me a drink/dinner…etc?"
The same rules apply (so you can answer as I suggested above), if you want some more fun and spicy answers you could say:
- "Ok I'll buy you dinner but you pay for the hotel room for afterwards?" 😉
- "Okay, I'll buy you a drink, but then we'll have real sex?" 😉
If you think these are too strong answers maybe you are not aware of who is asking these kinds of questions: certainly a quiet and blissful girl doesn't do that.
These questions are asked by a beautiful woman "with balls". And if you answer by following these directions, it will be the first time she's ever heard a man say that! 😉