Girls, when they're in love, are willing to make endless excuses for their crush: "He doesn't write after our date because he's very busy," "Doesn't answer because he doesn't see my messages," "Doesn't call to go out because he's sick.". Yeah! It may also be that he was stolen by aliens. Girl, stop racking your brains and wondering why he just disappeared. You can go crazy waiting for a message.
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So let's blow off the fantasy, break up the castles, and get back to the harsh reality. Here are 5 possible reasons why he really does not write you.
He's not attracted to you, and he hopes you realize it
If after a date the guy does not talk for more than two or three days, it means that he decided to "merge. He may be interested in you as a friend, but he doesn't want to get your hopes up for a romance. Rude? Yes! Maybe you shouldn't waste your time on him?
♪ He's marinating on you ♪
There's the type of guy who purposely keeps girls in suspense. Conventionally, he wants you to suffer and write him yourself. Typical Alec from Thomas Hardy's "Tess of the D'Urbervilles."!
He has another girlfriend
If a guy is very nice, flirts, then suddenly disappears for a couple of days, did not respond to your messages, and then reappears, as if nothing happened, then most likely he has someone. Maybe your crush ignores you exactly when he's spending time with his girlfriend and when they're having a bad time (or his lady is busy) he's having fun with you. Is it worth wasting your time on such a "macho"? We think you know the right answer.
He doesn't know what to write
And he's not a shy guy who could barely get up the nerve to ask you out? If so, it's possible that after a step forward, he'll take two steps back. Just because he's not sure of himself and doubts your interest. If you don't mind the prospect of being a little bit of a conquest, then write him! 😉
He doesn't want to
Yes, yesterday he wanted to, but today he doesn't. That's the kind of man who's in the mood. So you're not his priority. And unfortunately, he's not thinking about you. Maybe he doesn't take your relationship as seriously as you do. And then there are two ways: either to let him know that your intentions are serious, or retreat.