It is said that stories, especially the most famous ones, come from our unconscious and are the mirror the dynamics present in it.
The best known of these stories is the story of Oedipus, a man who killed his father and slept with his mother, which according to Freud represents a dynamic present in every male child.
We are not here to do a discussion on this topic, books and books have already been written about these things, instead we are here to find out if these concepts can be useful in seduction.
They are?
Yes, I am .
Which story in particular?
The story of Prince Charming.
Prince Charming is a figure present in many fairy tales, from Cinderella to Snow White for example, and even though he is not called "Prince Charming" the figure always presents very similar characteristicsi.
In fact, little is known about him, we know that he is handsome (read: has masculine energy), charming, brave and courageous.
Other characteristics are not said in such a way that a woman, in an unconscious way, if she imagines him to be endowed with ways of doing, behaviors, gestures that she likes in particular.
In other words, a man is defined as having characteristics that satisfy the primary needs and leave to the female imagination the characteristics that satisfy the secondary needs, then the personal ones that vary from woman to woman.
What is all this useful for?
It may seem strange to you but the stories that also talk about Prince Charming bring with them the natural seduction mentality.
If you think about it, it's obvious: our unconscious creates and identifies with these stories, it's obvious that the dynamics present are natural, no??
Well, let's go then to see how these stories are very useful to implement a winning mentality in seduction.
What happens in these stories?
In these stories the protagonist finds herself in a position of disadvantage, For example, Cinderella is submissive to her stepmother and sisters while Snow White is tormented by the Queen who is jealous of her for being too beautiful.
The stories can then have a number of variations but the ending is always the same: Prince Charming arrives and "They lived happily ever after".
First, notice how these stories speak to both the male and female subconscious.
For womena true man, so with the characteristics of alpha and beta, which is confident but kind and gives security.
The message for women is "Hold on to it, you won the lottery":-) then "And they lived happily ever after".
For men the message is a bit different, especially in the stories where the prince must to face some trials (eg. dragons and black knights) before having the beautiful maiden as a prize.
For us, the message is "In life you will face challenges, once you overcome them the prize is a beautiful woman".
I find this to be fundamentally true, in life you will face challenges, you will have to work hard and by overcoming them you will increase your masculine energy. With this masculine energy you will be able to conquer a beautiful maiden.
They don't even say, "You have to court her for months.". On the contrary, the stories explain well that if you have masculine energy you just have to "Get off your horse and kiss the girl you want" and she will be yours.
What it means in practice?
You just go and get what you want, because you are a natural seducer.
But there is more, the mentality of Prince Charming is also formidable for another reason.
Imagine being in a club and seeing a beautiful woman.
The mentality of the manipulative seducer is: "I feel I have less value than her, I go to her and with my tricks I make her mine, basically I take some value from her."
Doesn't that kind of suck?
The mentality of Prince Charming, therefore of the natural seducer, is instead: "I save her from her lonely condition, I bring value into her life, I respect her and she will be mine".
Ok, "saving her from her lonely condition" is a bit romantic as a phrase , but you get the idea.
So the mentality is, "I'm here to bring value into your life" and by the principle of reciprocity she will give you value in turn.
So this is the strongest mentality there is, now look inside yourself and see if it is present in you.
If it's not, give it a try: start thinking this way and notice how the results change.