Valentine's Day has always been a day suffered for many.
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- busy men who have to find a way to impress (and please) their girlfriends: I'm sorry but this articles do not do them
- men sadly single Who spend time ruminating on how poor their love life is and would like a girlfriend: this is the right article
- happily single menthis is the right article
How to act on Valentine's Day to meet girls
Valentine's Day is the festival of lovers but… not everyone knows that you can also meet women. 😉
First of all an important thing: act like it's a day normal, in fact Valentine's Day is the day of the couples but not the day when you create couples. So, if you see two guys together it's because they were already together the day before and numerically speaking the number of couples is always the same.
Even though there are couples, there are still a lot of single girls on the streets having their day (they don't disappear ;-)).
So, let's see some practical tips for this day?
1. Go to places to meet single girls
On February 14 there are two types of single people: those who stay locked up at home for fear of seeing couples and confronting the fact that they don't have a partner, and those who pretend they don't have a partner or are busy going out in the evenings having fun and possibly having a good time, meet a partner.
Couples on this special day are often out to dinner, go to see love movies, spend the evening in front of landscapes or under the sheets. In any case, if the restaurants are filled with couples, the bars and clubs are filled with single girls who, like you, have spent time wondering why they can't find a boyfriend.
In fact, the good news is that, for a variety of reasons, Valentine's Day is a day where you have a better chance of hooking up. On Valentine's Day girls don't want to be lonely so they are more likely to be approached.
Tell yourself that you are out to have fun and I guarantee that if you can keep the right mindset and play your cards right you have a good chance of meeting someone who would like to find a partner like you.
2. Be prepared for some testing
Chances are some woman you approach will be a little difficult and ask you questions like:
- "Where's your girlfriend??"
- "How come you're not with your girlfriend celebrating tonight?"
Obviously it's a test. You can respond in many ways, for example:
- "Where is your girlfriend?" reply: "I'm talking to her right now" 😉 or:"My girlfriend is allergic to roses and chocolates and has stayed home". Valentine's Day is traumatizing for her."
- "How come you're not with your girlfriend celebrating tonight??" reply: "But love I'm right here with you" 😉
These are just examples. You can say whatever you want, the important thing is that you don't put yourself in the position of the one who has to justify himself. You have to keep in mind that you have the right to meet the girls you want like everyone else, the fact that it's February 14 doesn't change anything.
3. Reconnect with old acquaintances with there was flirtation, but you have not main concluded
Valentine's Day is a holiday like so many others and like all holidays you can wish each other well. My advice in fact is: text a girl you've been in touch with, there was flirting, but you never ended it.
Obviously this does not mean writing desperately to someone who has given you two spades, it means Pick up where you left off with someone who had given you signs of interest.
Write her a message with this text:
"Happy Valentine's Day. [your first and last name]"
When you texted her she may not remember you or maybe she does. At this point you have a cue to start a conversation. She'll maybe tell you or hint at whether she's single or not, at which point you could write a message like..
"Ah I didn't know, so tonight you won't have big plans I guess … listen, since it's been a while since we've seen each other I think tonight I'm going to [name of place] with friends, if you want you can come, if you're with friends bring them along :-)"
It is important that the context that you want to imply here is that of a quiet exit. Ah, I almost forgot, of course if you have more than one girlfriend pending write to more than one- 😉
Use these tips together wisely and let me know if they worked.
Happy Valentine's Day. 😉
Niko