Today I want to talk about the mentality of scarcity and the mentality of abundance in the seductive pathway.
When you begin to study seduction you will encounter many obstacles, especially of a mental nature: your old self is always trying to prevent you from improving by making you stay stuck in the same situation.
Maybe on one hand you would like to approach cold, you would like to know how to do it with many women, you would like to sleep with many women, but there is a part of you that tries at all costs to make you stay there: this is very normal after all you are trying to change many things about you, even deep, so it takes perseverance, tenacity and above all time.
One of the most difficult obstacles is changing your mindset about women: replacing your old scarcity mindset with a new abundance mindset.
If I tell you that it took me a long time to acquire it, you won’t believe it! It is instead.
2 obstacles to overcome to have a mindset of abundance
Let’s look at the reasons why it’s so difficult, especially in the beginning, to change your mindset.
1. Changing the negative programming you’ve absorbed since childhood that keeps you from thinking that there are plenty of women with whom you can have wonderful relationships.
If you think about it, it’s no wonder: we have grown up watching movies that make us believe that there is only one wonderful woman (the famous “special girl syndrome”) making us believe that, even if we were totally clumsy when it came to women, we could conquer the most beautiful one simply because we were so good and kind.
Maybe I’m going to sound harsh but I want you to get this through your head: If you don’t have a way with women in general, it’s very difficult to get your special girl.
Understood?! Now you have a good reason to get more involved with girls, and acquire a mindset of abundance.
2. Prove to yourself that you have the ability to be with many women.
When you start to surround yourself with women, when you try and most of the time you get positive signals, you start to deeply realize that you have a chance to be with many women!
First the thing that feeds you are the signs of interest, but then of course it will be your successes with women that will Creating in you a solid mindset of abundance.
But why does it take time before you achieve this? Because if you grew up with a scarcity mentality, this one is rooted deep inside and to replace it takes time!
Not just time, but results! Of course the first step is to start working mentally on the mindset of abundance but then this must be transformed into something concrete, in real life, and this is done through the results.
The 5 stages of seduction with an abundance mindset
Okay, so now that we have some of the top 2 hurdles to overcome to pass change your scarcity mentality, let’s talk about how much this change will help improve in seduction and its 5 stages.
First of all, when you have a scarcity mentality you tend to think that the girl you decided to hit on is the only woman for you.
How you will experience seduction? Try to imagine yourself as you begin your seductive journey with a woman who is not your girlfriend wrong mentality, a mentality of scarcity … what will happen?
- you feel theanxiety grow
- You’ll have fear of making a mistake so you will not expose yourself
- When she will be you will get down because you will be afraid of losing her
- Your security will be crushed by fear to lose her and it will probably actually happen
A bad show true?!
Now think about hitting on a girl with a mindset of abundance, maybe you will struggle a bit but still try to imagine the situation from another point of view, what will happen?
- You will be more confident in yourself
- You will no longer reason in terms of right and wrong (and therefore you will no longer be afraid of being wrong) because you will reason in terms of expression of your feelings towards that girl
- You will know that if she doesn’t love you back There are many other girls
- You will have a lot more fun, because you will no longer perceive seduction as a matter of life and death but as something pleasant and fun
How Many Brain Cells Does a Human Have?
Now I’ll tell you why in the stages 5 stages of seduction You will be much more successful if you acquire the right mindset:
1. Approach
With a mindset of abundance you will live much more serenely the approach phase, because you will think that if that girl will make the difficult you will know many other women with whom you can try an approach.
2. Attraction
In the attraction phase you will know how to express your sexual desires without being ashamed or feeling judged, in fact it will be an opportunity for fun.
3. Rapport
In the relationship you will have less “mental shackles” and you will learn to make yourself known for who you really are without hiding or pretending to be someone else, but always being yourself and realizing that there is not only that one girl who could appreciate you, but many other women out there.
4. Closing games
Being more self-confident and getting to know you really know how to create without difficulty the basis for getting to the first sexual intercourse, feeling free and at ease and you will know how to behave with a woman.
All of this always thanks to a mindset of abundance, which got you on the right path.
5. Relationship
In the relationship it’s complicated, but trust that if the girl knows you have a lot of opportunities when it comes to women, you won’t be taken for granted and she’ll try to hold on to you as tightly as possible!
Be careful: I’m not saying you have to make her jealous, but to get the message across that you’re with her out of your own free will and not because she’s your only option.
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Well, I’ve said it all for today ;-)!
I hope I’ve been helpful in understanding why it’s crucial to have a mindset of abundance in seduction and every step of it.
Remember: with the right mindset you’ll get where you want to be in seduction, achieving every goal you set for yourself.
Niko