I usually prefer not to write personal articles for a number of reasons.
Among them, the fact that your focus needs to stay on you if you want to improve, not on what Reborn did or didn't do.
People have asked me this question in the comments though, so I decided to answer it.
They asked me what motivated me to change.
The answer is not unique. Motivation has been both in action that in reaction.
Let me explain.
The initial reaction was run away from something.
Yes because I was just sick and tired, sick and tired of considering myself a smart and educated person and not being successful with women.
And I didn't understand, I didn't understand, and the frustration grew… "Why do women only want me as a friend?"Why do they end up with morons??" "Why do they say they want a nice guy like me and then go with assholes?"
These questions filled my head.
Because for me it was not a matter of conquering the woman of my life… no, nothing so complex.
At the time it was just be able to go with a woman!
No, I wasn't a virgin, but considering the number of times I had sex, it was as if I was.
Because let's face it: if a man does not have sexual relations feels like crap.
It's not so much the physical gesture, it's the Inner validation that we get from having sex.
We are made to feel bad if we don't, and feel good if we do, it's the mechanism nature created to perpetuate the species.
So if a man doesn't have sex he feels like a loser, and I felt like one, a poor loser.
On the other hand, motivation was not only generated by the escape from something (reactive) , but also from thegoing towards something (proactive).
One thing I've always had was the ability to dream big, in any field.
This trait of mine caused me to screw up a lot, but it also brought me great gifts, especially when the people around me didn't believe my dreams that were impossible to them.
This vision, this image of the love/sex life I wanted, was very clear in my mind, and this has strongly motivated me.
I knew what I wanted, and even though my goals changed slightly over time, they were still always so full of fascination that they motivated me to do things I never thought I would.
To this must be added my damn (blessed) curiosity, in this sense I am like a child.
From an early age I had an unconditional thirst for knowledge, which fortunately was not limited to one or two areas.
I'm interested in everything, that's why I love new people so much, because they are always worlds to discover and savor.
My curiosity doesn't even stop at just knowing, I have to try and try again on my own skin everything I can, aiming at perfecting myself.
This is lucky for those who follow me, because I have really tried so many different things in the seduction and self-improvement fields.
Many times I have failed and many others I have succeeded, and in both cases I have been happy.
I now know what works for everyone, what works for me and maybe others, and what's hard to make work.
Not only that, I know what's good in the beginning, when one starts to change, and what's good afterwards.
I have so many things to talk about that I'm not quite sure how I'm going to do it .
Anyway, the summary is: my motivation was reactive (I was tired of feeling like a loser) and proactive (towards a better life).
Curiosity and desire to experiment did the rest.
So what do I recommend?
First, to look at your situation with honest eyes and second, to look at your situation with honest eyes create a vision of what you want.
Imagine, with vivid scenes, your ideal life from a sexual / sentimental point of view, feel the pleasurable sensations it causes you all the way, and then open your eyes again and struggle to realize it.