What look at women in man? Money or sympathy? Muscles or confidence? If it tifa Milan or Inter?
Every man has opinions about what women want from a man, if you hear of all colors, think I even had a friend convinced that women look at the package, that is, the bulge in his pants! haha
Seriously, let's leave opinions aside and see what they are looking for really women in a man, because believe me, finding out these things may shock you.
What women do NOT look at in a man
Since the usual crap always comes out, let's clear the field.
The usual two things that come out are:
- women only want the money
- if you are not handsome nobody wants you
Never seen a beautiful woman with a not rich man? Obviously you have seen it.
Never seen a beautiful woman with an ugly man? Obviously you have seen her (and said "He sure is rich!" , damn I know you haha )
All kidding aside, the belief that to conquer beautiful women is needed being beautiful or rich we have already figured out that it is false.
Now… being handsome or rich helps?
Beauty
Beauty can help? A little bit yes but much less than you think.
If you put a handsome and lame man VS an ugly and confident man, the second attracts woman much more easily.
For example, if a handsome man is very shy around girls, afraid of the first kiss, or if he's simply a jerk… he's not going anywhere.
"Eh but the good ones turn around and look at him!", someone might say
"Of course", I answer, "Then they talk to him and run away.".
Beauty allows for a little less effort at the beginning of the interaction but if you are a pirate if a pirate, very simple.
The correlation between beauty and attractiveness is very low, do you know what the strong correlation is instead? The one with themasculine energy.
It works like this: a handsome guy, the first few times he tries to approach the fairer sex (so when he is very young), has reactions slightly better than the others, this gives him confidence and therefore it is likely, not sure anyway, that he develops more masculine energy than other peers.
Remember also that we talk about when a person is very young, where they are all a little nerdy because it's the first approaches they make with women, and so even a small advantage like beauty can make a difference, growing up then beauty matters much less until almost disappear from the equation.
Wealth
Wealth can help? With some women, but only with some, can give a hand.
I'm not naive enough to say that money hunters don't exist, we'd miss them, but they're a very small percentage and… if you're sure that such a woman by your side?
I don't think it's a good idea.
Summarizing
Beauty and wealth can give a small hand, but the things that really matter are quite different.
Let's go see them?
The question is not complete
The question about what women look at in men doesn't make sense, because it misses one detail.
I'll give you an example.
Say you take the train one day and strike up a conversation with the man in front of you.
At a certain point, talking about this and that, he tells you that he wants to buy a new car, and he asks you "What do you think I should get for my car??".
You obviously, not knowing him and his needs, can't answer him about.
She travels a lot for work or uses the car very little? Turn in the city center, in the province, or in the countryside?
So the question you will have to ask him is: "What do you need the car for specifically?".
Here, when we talk about male-female relationships is the same thing.
For example: what do you look at into a woman?
Although you may not realize it, the answer is "it depends", because believe me, what you look for in a woman for a one night stand is not what you look for in a woman to marry, at least not always, then there are exceptions.
It's the same for her, so we need to make two distinctions:
- What a woman looks for an adventure
- What a woman looks for a relationship
Let's look at these two cases one by one.
What does a woman look for in an adventure
If she just wants a fling, a one-night stand, or whatever you want to call it, a woman often seeks a man with Strongly alpha characteristics.
The characteristics are many but I'll tell you the two main ones:
- Self-confidence
- Sympathy
I repeat: we could talk for hours about these things but I want to make it very simple so you can focus on a few things at a time.
When I say confidence and friendliness, you can imagine a man approaching a woman with boldness and starting to make her laugh with a few jokes.
Both of these characteristics are important because
- Only with self-confidence: you risk being monotonous
- Only with sympathy: one becomes a clown
That said, let's look at the second case. I remind you however that if you want become more confident you can start here.
What does a woman want to be in a relationship
When it comes to a relationship a woman is looking for anything other than a one-night stand.
Again, one could talk about this for hours, so I'll tell you the most important feature:
- Reliability
A woman wants a man she can rely on, which will be there When she will need.
This is a fundamental characteristic of the beta male.
The problem
The problem with these two cases is that if you take on just one of these ways of being and acting… you risk Losing the woman you wanted.
Why?
Case 1If you are just a one night stand man it is obvious that she does not want more from you. Now… maybe you don't want more from her either so no problem there BUT… if you do want more from her you definitely need to give her more creditability
Case 2If you are just a relationship man you end up becoming boring and she either cheats on you with a one-night stand, or she dumps you.
Seed from alpha, relationship from beta
If you think I'm exaggerating about these two cases, get ready for some scientific news that will make you piss off (although it should not).
Women are biologically driven to get knocked up by an alpha man and then have a relationship with a beta man.
They demonstrate:
- The behaviors of many animal species in which this happens regularly
- The fact that a woman in the most fertile phase of her cycle chooses men with more alpha characteristics, while in the least fertile phase she chooses men with more beta characteristics (see study)
- The fact that when a child is born in a couple the mother says (unconsciously) more often "He looks like his daddy" not "She looks like me". Why? So as to remove any doubts about paternity. Sure, it's obviously an unconscious thing. (see study)
- Personal experience 😉
It means that they do? It means that women get knocked up by a man and then get married? No (well some are but it's a small percentage), but that's who they are pushes to act as mother nature.
Kind of like saying men are more prone to war than women.
You can get pissed off at men for this? No, it's their nature. Obviously, however, instincts are one thing, action based on instincts another. So you don't have to get pissed off at men because they are more prone to war, they are to get pissed off if they make war, ok?
The same for women, they can't be judged for their instincts, they can be judged Based on the actions they take.
What to do
You have understood?
If you want a woman for a relationship you have to have both the characteristics of the first and the second, both alpha and beta.
Simpler than that, what do you want, a little drawing?
I don't recommend it, I draw like a dog.
In conclusion there is only one kind of man that satisfies all female needs and is True Man, the one who has male energy.
How can you be this kind of man? Start from here.
To the next.
P.S. I will warn you though… if you can be this kind of man, who is the perfect man in every way, you risk that she will poke holes in the condom the first time you have sex, and the next day start counting the weeks of pregnancy :-). Forewarned is forearmed..!