"What women want from a man?" is a question men have been asking themselves for a long, long time.
Adam probably wondered about that when Eve started bugging him for the damn apple.
For many men the female mind is something totally mysterious and illogical, they look at a woman and see that her behaviors don't follow a logic.
In reality, the logic exists, but is not the same male logic! So the question of what women want doesn't go unanswered, now let's look at the question…
What women want and what they say they want
Often in comments and coaching I hear things like: "She told me that she likes men who look like this" or "A friend of mine told me that women want a man who is made like that." or yet "My friends say that women like blah blah blah".
It is really helpful to listen to women to understand what women want from a man?
For the Most.. no!
And this mistake leads many men to make several serious mistakes, which you can find in the Free Report "Seduction: the 37 most common mistakes".
But why is it not useful to listen to women in this case?
For 3 fundamental reasons..
1. They often say what they "should say"
Our society dictates to women what should say and especially what they should not say.
Many women think it's wrong, almost macho, to say they want a confident man who can take what he wants.
As if "confident" means "asshole". What a load of crap!
Since there are these distortions unfortunately a woman cannot tell the truth about what she wants.
2. They often don't know what they want
They think of knowing what they want from a man, and fatality It's the same stuff that romantic movies and cartoons put in his head.
It's right at that point that you hear them say "I want a man who is kind, romantic and caring.", that there can also be, but they are things that come later than a man with masculine energy, because otherwise all the poor guys who hit on them making a thousand gallant gestures, being romantic and caring, would be successful and instead they come discarded.
Unfortunately, women are heavily conditioned, and think they want some very "politically correct" things, when in fact they want others.
3. Conflicting and rapidly changing emotions
As you will know a woman is capable of feeling and wanting one thing one second, and the next second feeling and wanting theExactly the opposite.
Given this aspect, it doesn't make much sense to ask them what they want in general from men, sure maybe it can give some indication, but these indications must be well filtered by a whole series of other aspects.
What women want from a man
Let's go and see what women really want?
Let's do a very quick summary (note that this is NOT a complete list).
A woman wants different things in different stages of seduction and relationship (if you do not know what are the stages of seduction click here).
Approach Phase
Women here want:
- Sympathy
It's not the only thing that matters, but making a woman laugh, especially in the approach phase, lowers her defenses considerably.
- Decision
I assure you that women do not receive so many cold approaches made with confidence and decision.
- Respect for interpersonal space
If you're too attached to her from the get-go, you won't create attraction, but a desire to get away
Attraction phase
What women want at this stage? What they look for in a man?
- Sympathy
As with the approach, it helps to be a nice, fun person in this stage too.
- Safety
You are a confident man who is shy?
- Unpredictability
When a woman can not frame you well you make her crazy.
- Decision
As in approach.
- Sense of humor
Not only then know how to make people laugh, but keep a joking conversation maybe, this is the mouse, make self-deprecation.
- Fortitude
Characteristic of Male Energy.
- Imperturbability
Imperturbability is the ability not to be upset by negative things, even those that may happen during the approach.
- Positive dominance
This is the ability to bring value to people, the exact opposite of negative dominance, which unfortunately some women are drawn to.
When I say "bring value to people" don't just think of someone who takes care of others for long periods of time, even in the little things this characteristic is expressed. For example, when you are talking to a woman and you want her to have fun, laugh, and be comfortable with you, that is positive dominance.
Rapport Phase
Women here want:
- Empathy
Empathy is at the ability to connect with other people.
- Ability to listen
I guess you know that women like to be heard, no?
- Depth
After the nice talks of the attraction phase comes the time to get to know each other better and have a little deeper talks.
Game closure
In this hot phase women want from a man:
- Sensuality
Things get heated..
- Sexual Tension
That tension that invokes the desire to have sex.
- Masculinity
Being manly and and taking charge of the situation.
- Virility
Ditto as above.
Relationship
In the relationship phase, women from a man want to all the things said before plus:
- Approval
Very important for his self-esteem.
- Devotion
It makes her feel special.
- Security
We've already talked about it.
- Attentions
He makes her feel loved.
And now?
And now I offer you a very short video that tries to give an answer to the fateful question: "What women want from men?"
Don't stop at just the answer, which may seem superficial, think about it for a moment and try to understand what the video really means.
hahaha understood?
How would you seduce a woman like this?
All jokes aside, if sometimes you don't understand what women want from men, don't worry too much, okay??