You want to know if it's true that women like muscular men? Want to know if having muscles is important to conquer a woman?
Good, because you're about to discover the naked truth that no one has ever told you (or will ever tell you).
I always hope that the myth of themuscular man who is a great pick-up has now been lost in the "distant" 80's and 90's where the connection muscles, women and seduction seemed to be certain .
Unfortunately, I realize that this myth is not only present, also because reinforced by the mass media, but it often becomes the excuse for to justify their failures with women.
"I'm fat", "I have a belly", "If only I had the physique!" "Look at the nice physique on that one, no wonder he's picking up!" , How often do you hear these phrases?
Even in the gym you hear similar crap from men with perfect physiques: "Women like biceps" , "Women like abs", etc. etc.
But it will be true?
I'll give you the answer right now and then I'm going to argue to explain myself better.
But to get the right answer you have to ask the right question though, and "Women like muscles?" is not a correct question, it is too general!
Let's get more specific.
Let's talk about being fit first…
- Women like a fit man? Yes
- It is essential for a woman that a man is in shape? No
- It can help to be fit? A little yes.
Let's see now the muscles speech
- Women like a muscular man? If he is not a mountain of muscles, you may like him.
- It is essential for a woman that a man is in muscle? Absolutely NO!
- It can help to be muscular? If you are not a mountain of muscles, yes, it can give you a little help, but the most important things are other.
Reread that last sentence well because therein lies the gist of the argument: "being muscular can help you out, but the important things are other things.".
Women like muscular men?
Let's take two identical men, the same manner, the same masculine energy, the same seductive skills. The only difference is that one has a normal physique while the other is muscular, but not a mountain of muscles, something normal.
Now let's put these two men to seduce a woman and, assuming she can see the difference in physique (maybe it's summer ) all other things being equal, she will certainly choose the one with the best physique.
Let's take these two men again and put them in front of a woman. Only in this case the first one, the one with the normal physique, gets 5% more sympathy, or 5% more male energy, or 5% more knowledge of female psychology.
Who do you think will choose the woman? I'll tell you: she'll choose the first one, the one with the normal physique!
Physical fitness counts, but it is not important, so if compared to the weight of the other features it doesn't count for anything!
Let's say that you are a cook and you have to participate in a culinary competition in which the only parameter on which the judges' judgment is based, at least according to the rules, is taste. The best dish wins.
Knowing this you will focus on the characteristics that matter to give the dish a good flavor and so you will have a high chance of winning.
Then, if you want and if you have time, you can also make him a nice seal so that it is also beautiful to see, so maybe some judge will be unconsciously a little influenced by that too.
Back to seduction, Focusing only on having a good physique means focusing only on the seal, that counts for very little in the final result.
At the same time, there are women for whom muscles are important, but likewise there are women for whom if you don't have a gold watch on your wrist you're nobody, or women who much prefer men who dress in dark suits, or men with brown shoes, or men who drink cappuccino without cream, o rude men, o fat men, o short men, o very tall men, o men who don't eat salad, o men who only give perfume as gifts, o men who love motorcycles, o men who hate motorcycles because they are dangerous, o men who often dress in sweatpants, o men who are only shaved, o hairless men, o very feminine men, etc. etc.
Every woman, like every man, has her own particular tastes, but you can't go out thinking of satisfying them all because their weight in seduction is practically nil if compared to the need to have a man with masculine energy.
Returning to the physique, a clarification must be made.
If you have a normal physique, it is important "put on muscle"? Certainly not.
If you have a bit of a belly, it is important make it go away? No, it is not important.
If you weigh 150kg and are 1.60m tall, it's important to lose some weight? Definitely yes.
If you weigh 50kg and are 6'3", it's important to gain weight? Definitely Yes.
Understand then how within a certain threshold there are no problems, but extremes are certainly not good and not only for seduction: I mean, if you are severely obese, your health will not be great.
But let's get down to practicalities, because I'm sure someone will ask: "Marco, you ultimately recommend improving my physique?"
If you're in one of two extremes, if you're obese or definitely underweight: yes.
And even if you have a normal physique I still recommend you to do sports, it is not as important as in extreme cases, but if you do it is better. Note that I wrote "play sports", not "aim for a good body".
Why?
The answer in this article.
Do you still think for women muscles are important?
Let's pose for a second a fake let's say that having a nice body full of muscles is very important in seduction and that the link between women and muscles is indissoluble. Ok ok, I'm already laughing saying these things , but let's pretend that's the case.
If a man with a mediocre physique really thinks that "putting on muscle" helps him a lot in seducing women, then, excuse my French , why doesn't he move his ass and go work out?!?!
I don't get it: you complain, you think you have the solution at hand, and instead of moving you keep complaining??!? "If only I had the body" you say?!?! I would argue that the only thing you lack physically is not muscles, it's balls! hahahah
All jokes aside, if you want to really understand what creates attraction in a woman and know how to do it in no time, take a look at this.
P.S. Before you comment keep in mind that we are not talking about male beauty in general, but about physical fitness, so the link between muscles, women and seduction. We have already talked about beauty in this article.