Hello to all! How you are doing? You have already improved in seduction since I wrote my last article on how to put a woman at ease?
And above all: how was New Year's Eve ? 😉 I hope well!
In this article I want to talk to you about something very important, a principle behind seduction, which once understood will take you far ahead, a powerful tool but at the same time to be used carefully: test a girl.
How to test a girl
Let's take a step back though, what does it mean to test a girl?
That means getting her to take a test with crosses? Ahaha, no!
It's a natural process that happens when two people start getting to know each other and attraction is created between them.
How many times have you come across a girl who tests you?
I always do, and when they do it means they want to understand what you are made of, so you should be happy when girls test you.
But why do they do it?
Because it's their way of figuring out what kind of person you are, a potential partner or a person you can have only a friendship, but also to see if you have those certain male characteristics that make her feel attracted and also protected.
If you think about it, this is all part of a natural process: getting an idea of the person you're dealing with. And not only in seduction.
But… there's a big but!
The tests that a girl can give you can result in a very bad situation in which she becomes the judge and you become the judged.
I think you've already been in the situation where the girl in question had the power to put you in awe and you there to buy their approval selling out: trueooo?
This is a big mistake a man is likely to make in the seduction of a woman: selling out to seduce a woman.
This is a mistake that you must not make, because you only end up decrease your value and this a woman perceives it.
Once you understand this what changes?
Firstly: you are aware of the harm that can come from putting yourself in the position of the judged and therefore you will avoid it, you will begin to behave more by real man without asking for the girls approval (sorry if that's not enough) ;-).
SecondlyYou can use this situation to your advantage.
This is because testing a woman is a advanced attraction technique very powerful and is also my favorite.
It is a technique of attraction because it serves to create attraction, that's why it must be used mainly in the beginning.
It is an advanced technique because to use it effectively you need to know the stages of seduction, which you can find in depth in Instant Attraction.
Testing a girl: why it works?
Testing a girl works for the following reasons:
- Because it allows you to have a better handle on seduction (if you test a girl, you're the one momentarily putting yourself on the pedestal)
- Because girls like to be tested, and you benefit from the fact that you don't take yourself for granted
- Because it creates that positive tension and at the same time playful complicity between you and her
- Because this technique will bring down from the pedestal the slightly bitchy girls who are very often looking for someone to stand up to them
But be careful, to make this technique work well you have to be careful about a few things:
- If you exaggerate you will make the girl uncomfortable
- If you don't have the basics or a good calibration that comes with experience, you risk looking like a blowhard
- If you exaggerate you will make a bad impression
- She might get annoyed and start throwing jibes at you, which is to be avoided because it doesn't lead to anything good for seduction
That's why I suggest you to start in a "soft" way Poking the girl to see how she reacts.
In addition, to make the technique more effective, test it lovingly, that is, on the one hand you put her in awe, but on the other hand you wink at her! 😉
Here are some practical examples to test a girl:
- "You are a very pretty girl but in my opinion there is a catch!"
- " I could never be with a girl who has the nose of a jumbo mouse…"
- " Ah, so you like to watch TV shows? You are not a girl who is always on the couch like Homer Simpson?"
- "Buying you a drink right now would be too easy; you can do better than that! "
It is useless to repeat that these phrases must be made to laugh together and to make you feel comfortable not to make the girl feel bad. So be careful how you use them, you don't want to come across as the real obnoxious guy on duty? 😉
Make good use of my favorite technique.
A big hello from..
Niko
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